lazyneet

joined 1 year ago
[–] lazyneet 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Great! I'm glad it's back (and also glad the old posts were just hidden, not deleted). Hopefully whatever moderation problems you were having will go away.

[–] lazyneet 2 points 1 month ago

Interesting. I've never had sex with a friend, but maybe one day. Thanks for sharing.

[–] lazyneet 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I miss the guy who used to make these threads, but it looks like he left and deleted everything. Sad. He was hot too.

The only "fun" I had in the last couple of weeks was an embarrassing date last Tuesday. The guy said we weren't a match within 20 minutes of meeting and called a taxi. I'd rather not talk about it. 😭

[–] lazyneet 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

A decade ago this was less true, but dating apps on smartphones seem to be, as you say, for hookups. I just find it appealing to have a menu, which seems like an efficient way to select partners.

May I ask, how did you meet your husband?

[–] lazyneet 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I prefer men. I enjoy uninhibited male sexuality, especially since I'm a bottom. It's not that I dislike women, but my sexuality has never been a good match for women outside of BDSM. I do not like vaginal sex and I do not understand all the cultural bullshit of gender roles which obviously don't apply to queer relationships.

[–] lazyneet 6 points 1 month ago

No. Have you?

[–] lazyneet 8 points 1 month ago

Never screamed during vaginal sex. The last time I had it, I said that we may as well stop. I don't know if other gays are like me, but it isn't my thing.

[–] lazyneet 4 points 2 months ago

I shave in the shower and use depilatory cream for my ass. The red spots around the pubic area reduce once the skin has habituated to regular shaving.

[–] lazyneet 1 points 2 months ago

It's fine. I know I'm not unattractive, I just don't seem to be as attractive to guys as I'd like to be since I still look like a man. I appreciate these gay questions. I wish more people asked them.

[–] lazyneet 10 points 2 months ago

Two different partners gave me a handjob in the same bookstore. The first time it happened I was surprised. The second time it seemed like a strange coincidence. (Never came in either case)

[–] lazyneet 2 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Pre-transition me went out with another crossdressing guy I met on an app (which wasn't exclusively a gay app) because we had similar experience in free software stuff, so it seemed like there was a lot in common. We walked around and talked for a couple hours, and he told me that he thought he might be interested in guys, but after seeing me he wasn't. I'm not bad-looking either, but at the time it was low-key devastating.

[–] lazyneet 3 points 2 months ago (4 children)
  • calls himself straight before meeting
  • calls himself straight after meeting 😭
  • doesn't know what he's looking for
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