Really depends on whether you're more comfortable with a WebUI or Command line.
pfSense CE is still perfectly fine, and a lot of features that are behind the paywall are more for commercial users, less for homelabs/home users.
If you are still worried, then Opnsense is a pfSense alternative that's built from the same base as pfSense as it was forked from pfSense a few years ago.
Also, you won't be able to run Proxmox on the Pi. There is Pimox, but I don't know how that would behave if it was in a cluster with Proxmox.
I hit up /r/sysadmin for some guides for a friend, they suit this sub as well though so maybe we should pin these for those "what should I do with my lab" posts.