SapphicFemme

joined 1 year ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

The issue is the traumatizing/retaumatizing of having to see such awful posts in a Safe space though. That's my issue and also how awful people are being in my post i reported

 

Please read the replies to the link i posted in this linked post. It highlights a lot of really upseting content that is pushing LGBT people away from this instance and makes people feel uncomfortable or unsafe in a safe space. Reminder a persons right to exist peacefully shouldn't be up for debate and they shouldn't be treated like they were by the commenter who replied to their comment.

Do we as LGBT stand for this type of behavior to our siblings and friends??

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

It clearly is to the people who responded to the post i linked. They sure seemed upset. The persons right to exist and the way they were treated, isn't a "disagreement". Please read the linked post

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Odd that a organization aimed at moving people at risk of legal or other physical safety risks would organize or work over unnecrypred discord. You'd think a serious organization would use Element/matrix or signal to communicate securly, very alarming.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They'll likely federate with those who worked with them and signed NDA. They are probably going to allowlist federate ... My guess

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

They can fork the project files and have a community edition

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

As a beehaw user, they also have rude users too. You can read my post about "debates"

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

My point is your comment is disingenuous and unhelpful. Have you read what i was referring too?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I don't recall anybody asking for "every" post be deleted, just abusive or traumatizing ones about or towards marginalized people. It's reasonable to not retraumatise whom are regularly treated poorly by so much of society. please stop using hyperbolic and disingenuous arguments. I ask you to please read the linked posts and understand the person whom was attacked side.

To solve this problem of seeing "deleted by mod" all over, a reason can be posted by the mod as a comment explaining why if needed.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

If we removed everything we disagreed with

That is very disingenuous and rather hyperbolic to say this. A person talking about their lived experiences and having someone dismiss them in a safe space only for admin to act like removing traumatising content is somehow "what we disagree with"?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

This is tiring for those whom are being attacked by that stuff in covert manner. Think about it from the minority persons perspective, day in day out they see abusive content, in media, their home and in discussion forums. It doesn't help to be forced to see this in a safe space either. The stuff i link in this post isn't good for the mental health and wellbeing of people.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I actually found and reported comments being covertly hateful here and the admins did nothing.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

For real, they really are

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

I'm subscribed to a community on lemny.ml, i posted over 24 hours & it still has yet to show on the lemmy.ml community. All my subscriptions "pending" too? Any ideas to fix?

 

Wasn't it established this type of behavior isn't acceptable towards lgbt people? Dismissing their hurt caused by others and clearly gas lighting them?

The replies to this comnent are disheartening https://beehaw.org/comment/314559

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