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I'm either in hyperfocus or I forget... anyone else? (lemmy.world)

submitted 11 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I don't think I'm the only one judging by this article:

ADHD can make it hard for us to remember - and want - to take care of basic needs because of our usual challenges with prioritization and distractibility.

People with ADHD have reported forgetting to do things like eating, showering, and going to the bathroom.

Forgetting to tend to your basic human needs can be caused by a poor working memory, hyperfocus, and time blindness.

Anyone can experience these symptoms, as they're not exclusive to people with ADHD and/or autism.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I ended up with a kidney surgery when I was young from holding it. I ended up with hypoglycemia from forgetting to eat regularly, for extended periods during high school. My teeth also had a rough time with bad habits.

It is a wonder I was not diagnosed for adhd earlier (44 diagnosed 2 mo ago)!

Because of health issues now still stemming from those younger years, I am more vigilant about bathroom breaks and at least healthy snacking if not proper meals. I keep flosspicks around and handy. Though, I still may not shower until halfway through a day and a future task now requires it, and other small things. Like, I will be sitting and intent on something and feel my leg tingling and telling me it's falling asleep, I won't pay it any attention though to shift or wiggle. Instead, I'll get a cramp or, finally go to move and have no feeling in that limb and be stuck. That's when my brain will acknowledge that we knew the whole time and just ignored it.

Medicine has been very helpful, though there are still habits that need correction after so many years ingrained.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

My goodness, you described me... I literally just had to move my leg because of pins and needles, and I have a flosspick hanging out of my mouth. Little habits like that help me stay on track health and hygiene-wise. I also brush my teeth several times a day, so if on occasion I forget to do it before bed, I at least brushed them after dinner or something.

I'm sorry you had to go through surgery and health issues. It's a reminder of how many facets of our lives are affected by ADHD. Medicine is helpful indeed, but I think you hit the nail on the head: we formed all these habits, and our brains will always go with the path of least resistance. I've had to learn to take pauses during the day and check in with myself to stay healthy and not burnt out. Still learning!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Anyone else? Yes.

(Thanks for the reminder! :D)

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

Haha, if I reminded one person to go, then my mission is complete.