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[–] [email protected] 141 points 1 year ago (10 children)

If I'm feeling sick, or my family is, I will wear one to work, the whole point of them is to minimize spread of disease.

[–] [email protected] 69 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I think this has been the norm in asian cultures since way before covid.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Japan and Korea. Ain't no such thing in South East Asia.

[–] magicalbeast69 15 points 1 year ago

We wear mask becaise of pollution πŸ™ƒ

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[–] [email protected] 40 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Indeed. Western society tends to be individualistic and forgets that masks are primarily used to protect those around you from disease.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago

Tends to? They beat us over our heads with their selfishness through COVID.

"Why are you wearing a mask?!?" Because I didn't want to get you sick, thanks for returning the favor.

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[–] [email protected] 63 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I carry one with me. If I see someone else wearing one, I'll put it on. I'm not really worried about anything myself, but I'll gladly wear a mask to give someone else peace of mind.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

I wish everyone is like you. I don't wear masks outdoors anymore, but I still do in places like malls where there are tons of strangers. They can get pretty uncomfortable, but if it helps me avoid covid, the flu, or even colds then I'm all for it.

[–] [email protected] 54 points 1 year ago (10 children)

I am one of the only people here that still wears a mask at the doctor. Even most of the doctors stopped wearing them (what the hell! thats where the sick and immunocompromised are most likely to be in the same building!)

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 43 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

On public transit and airplanes, definitely. I used to get colds all the time when traveling; I don't anymore. I think part of that is down to improvements in air filtration, but part of it is masking.

In some shops, but not all. Mostly in shops that have a lot of people in at once, and shops that request it. I don't mask if I'm going to the corner store to pick up some beer; I do mask at the grocery store that has a sign requesting it.

Never for outdoor events. This might be different if I lived in a different city; a friend of mine who lives in the LA area does mask for crowded outdoor events.

Also, doctor's offices and a few other places require it.

(Curious observation: On transit, I'm not usually the only person with a mask on, but I'm often the only non-Asian person with a mask on.)

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yep, airport for sure. I used to get sick everytime I flew. Not anymore and in hindsight it seems stupid that I never masked at the airport before. And doctor's office if it's my primary care or urgent care. Not much of a need for a mask at the dermatologist. Basically if I'm somewhere there's a fuck load of contagious people.

Recently though, the air quality has been so bad from the wild fires up north that I've worn a mask while out. I came home one day from coughing like crazy and my throat was sore. I thought I was getting sick until I put two and two together about the thick haze of wildfire smog. Masked up until the AQI went back down and saved myself some discomfort.

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[–] [email protected] 39 points 1 year ago (4 children)

We all wear masks...metaphorically speaking, we suppress the id, our darkest desires, and adopt a more socially acceptable image.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

That's right, Wendy.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yep, while inside public places. Still haven’t caught it. Knocks on wood

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[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 year ago (7 children)

This thread is an interesting "filter bubble" experience. Here, a city in central europe, nobody I know wears one anymore, even those who were always extra-careful on the cautious side. Basically nobody in stores wears one nor in public transport. Yeah, on occasion you find 1-2 exceptions that confirm the rule.

Probably, this thread is largely visited by those who still do, and ignored by those who don't.

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago

I do. The number one "complaint" people had with me pre-pandemic was that I should smile more. Not one fucking dumbass person has told me to do that when I have my mask on. That alone is enough reason for me to never take it off when I'm dealing with customers.

I am also still paranoid and I don't trust the average person out there to be doing safe things.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If I feel under the weather and I must go out, I'll wear a mask. Otherwise, no. Society at large has accepted the less dangerous variants as a fact of life.

During the pandemic I wore them everywhere. A large section of society showed they couldn't be fucking bothered so here we are.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

As a retail worker I was dealing with people without masks on day 1. People coughing in my direction, people being jackasses. Why are people like this?

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

Indoors in public, all the time.

I don't want to catch COVID again if I can help it. It's a shitty, dangerous virus.

TBH, I don't think most people understand that it's not just a bad cold--it's a virus that attacks your vascular system that also does some nasty respiratory stuff. The increased risks of heart attacks and strokes after even a mild infection are not great, and if you're getting infected every year, you're permanently carrying that elevated risk.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago

I do. I find it helps reduce common cold and cough infections. And i really will never stop wearing it when in a mall or any space with lots of strangers.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

If I'm sick or in a crowded space it kinda feels like common sense to me at this point tbh. Especially when sick, like I can't fathom how I thought it was normal to just be sick and go out without a mask probably getting other people sick, even if it was just a cold.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've noticed wearing an N95 makes the hard gasoline and diesel smells from the highway less bad when cycling-commuting.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I jog with my mask on everyday. Avoiding breathing in all the dirt on the side of the road as cars go by is not something I want to stop doing.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago

Yes. I got covid in 2020 and am still a complete wreck. It really did a number on me in so many ways.

I try to do what I can to avoid getting even worse.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Everytime I go grocery shopping I will also be wearing a mask. I am kind of baffled by people who seem to think that corona has poofed out of existence.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

Out of sight out of mind. Hahaha

Masks are good for everybody though. Even the percentage of getting infected by common airborne illnesses can be reduced by a simple mask.

And also if you are ill, it protects others from you.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (4 children)

It still exists but the main problem is solved. Hospitals arent full, the virus mutated to much less deadly variants and the majority of people is immunized. Right now, Corona is just another flu. Sure its not nice but the average joe will get it now and then.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don’t, and I feel super out of place now after reading the comments.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago

I still wear a mask but its the fact that others don't think logically about this stuff still that has me most up in arms. Dad has been sick since weekend, mom says I'm going to come over to your house to see her grandkids. Mom comes over and 4 hours later they call me to tell me they both have covid and tested positive. Mom tells me that dad had been sick since weekend....in my head im fuming.

fingers crossed. Just hoping since she wasn't sick, that our 1 hour visit will spare my fam somehow.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

Never. Corona hasn't really been a concern in Denmark since very early 2022

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I wear a mask when I’m on a short plane trip because the odds are high someone will have a airborne illness. And the effort is minimal compared to the probability of exposure. But otherwise I don’t wear one.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Isn’t any illness on a plane an airborne illness?

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

Oh, hi Dad!

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

I do pretty much always. I don't at the gym or in the (semi rare) instances i eat out. Shit's not "over" and i have an immunocompromised friend i'd like to continue hanging out with.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I wear one every day with only a few exceptions (lab work for university where it’s impractical and I’m only around a few people anyway). I have seen the effects of long Covid on my loved ones, and i want nothing to do with that. Still haven’t caught COVID this far in, and while I think my vaccinations have been effective it makes me uncomfortable that we aren’t continuing to boost and that most people haven’t had a fresh vaccine in a few years at this point. Waning efficacy is a real thing and many never got boosted at all

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

I tend to wear one before I get on the London Underground, it's grotty enough as it is, without the close confines and hordes of people.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

At this point, only if it is required, and it almost never is. No bad feelings at all towards people who do wear them. I'm not personally concerned about it, and nobody in my family is high risk, so I decided early on that I'd just follow local rules and CDC guidelines. CDC website currently only recommends masks if you may have been exposed so that's what I've been doing.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

If I’m on public transport, crowded public area, feeling off colour

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

I still wear one in crowds. I had a lobe of a lung removed due to a rare cancer. I'll never be cured, but will slowly loose lung function as airways are blocked. If I'm lucky it's a disease I die with and not of, so I am treating my lungs like the delicate little flowers they are and fighting to avoid any and all respiratory diseases I can. I am now also queen of the hand sanitiser when out in public. The stuff from Bath and Bodyworks is da bomb, smells like hand cream.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

I do in higher risk situations since I'm immunosuppressed from my Colitis treatments.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

I still use a mask daily. I actually like it. Also going without a mask in public in terrible. Car smoke, death animal smell, piss smell, random people coughing, etc. A mask prevents me of smelling all of that in a pretty effective way.

Also dont have to force smile wearing a mask.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

Narp. I just avoid people. Much more effective.

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