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It feels like people are a lot nicer here than on Twitter and Reddit, and even when people disagree, it's generally civil and not an all-out flame war. Also, there's no algorithm promoting outrage all the time.

For me, the anticipation of toxicity was a huge deterrent for me ever participating in real discussions, but here I feel like I can be myself.

I think it's healthier this way.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (4 children)

My early Reddit experience was scary that way. I'd quickly learn the hard way (e.g. with antics and misunderstanding) that the name of a subreddit was either an early intention or an inside joke (that I didn't fully get).

Far right subs banhammered me for failing to speak the newspeak and signaling appropriate allegiances. Far left subs banhammered me for... saying something tankie-adjacient, I guess? I'm still not sure what atlantism is.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Spend too long in either echo chamber and I start to realize I'm not part of either. The world is complex, boiling it down to two corporate sponsored and totally insane ideologies doesn't fit.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I first joined reddit back around 2009 and this is pretty much how it was back then. Small discussions, generally pretty friendly. Discussion was ok, debate would usually have sources to back up claims. I wonder if anybody else here is from that time. It was about when Snoo became the official mascot, there was that narwhal bacon slogan, the scandal with the biologist that we all loved until it was discovered he was pumping up his own posts and comments with alts. Good times. I wonder if Lemmy will follow the same path

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

This fediverse thing feels like a community, rather than like you get elsewhere.

Both are fine for spending time relaxing and scrolling. Only one feels like there’s something worthwhile about it.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

It's so much easier to comment on Lemmy because it isn't a toxic cesspool waiting to tear you apart

Yet...

But I hope it stays that way ... so behave! ರ⁠_⁠ರ

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I typically lurk due to this. Maybe this community will allow me to come out a little more and be comfortable doing it

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think part of it is early adopters of any new, not-yet-mainstream technology are more open to differences, after all, we’re all doing something different.

Also, when you’re an early part of something, you want it to be the best that it can be, whereas when you are part of this massive corporate social network you don’t feel that same responsibility.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Yet...

And it depends on the instance you're on. I am on beehaw especially because of this, respect.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

OP ur a big stinky poo-poo

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I feel the same way, such a nice place here :)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Give it time, man.

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