Atheism

Provide rules that require religious tolerance, while still allowing respectful criticisms of said religions.

Basically just avoiding the edge lord/ hate speech stuff.

Over at /r/nihilism we always had a similar issue.

Any posts that are critical of religion should be fact based and impartial as possible. Sources should be required.

As an example:

Posting a rant about how how you don't like Islam: [deleted]

Posting a link to a news article about the statistical rate of s**ual harassment in the catholic church: "A+"

(Just examples)

All that being said, I think we should more focus on how to live our lives positively and effectively. A lot of people perseve atheists as having no motivations/ being unreliable. I think we should try to overcome that image by focusing on progressing our own "beliefs", and spreading our message: "Life is what you make it."

We should also strive to be a safe place for recent refugees of different religious backgrounds. Not only should we be a place of open discussion and critical thinking, but a place of support and recovery. That's more my opinion, though.

I would love to see posts like:

"Tips on staying positive after recently losing your faith"

"Rebuilding a social network after cutting ties with toxic family"

"How to come out to your religious family as atheist"

"I recently came out as atheist and my family disowned me, what should I do?"

"What are some good movies you'd suggest for an atheist?"

"Here is some art I made as a social commentary on religion"

"Making eye contact during prayer"

Etc...

This will definitely be too much to ask, but if we didn't have regular "why are you an atheist?" threads like r/atheism had every single fucking day, that would be lovely.

I was happy with r/atheism. A lot of good people. We had some I didn't agree with, but that is ok. I'm sure we'll be the same here.

Welcome to the internet.

Maybe a greater respect for the biological reality of limbic needs. People who are religious aren't automatically morons for simply being religious. Spirituality is an essential part of what makes us humans. So, perhaps we could do better to vocalize that respect, while still addressing the specific truth claims.

Also, helping believers ask their own questions without attacking the fact they've been led to believe something would go miles further in helping them develop critical thinking skills.

Insults only drive people deeper into superstition and fundamentalism.

EDIT: Check out "Street Epistemology" on YouTube for what (in my subjective opinion) seems to be the most efficient way to help people think through their beliefs.

EDIT 2: It seems we may be defining spirituality differently. I am NOT talking about supernatural beliefs. I'm talking about an emotional sense of connection to something bigger than oneself. The things managed mainly in the midbrain, especially through the limbic system. Spirituality =/= superstition, though the latter has become deeply entrenched in popular spiritual pursuits.

EDIT 3: "Something bigger than oneself" = Any natural system of which you are a subcomponent.

As lurker, I felt it was more doom, and watching the decline of civilization by the Christian fascist. And sadly those are clearly issues to be concerned about.

I think this community is starting to wake up and realize it's not a small fringe part of society but a growing part of the soon to majority.

Now is the time to have discussions on what issues most concern the group and how to we proceed. Stop being "independent" or in the side line but register for a political party and start effecting change.

Steps off soap box

TST news is good shrugs

Might not be bad people entirely, but religion is fundamentally poison to society.

The best thing to avoid would be giving the impression that religious belief entitles someone to having those beliefs respected. Nobody owes them that kind of pandering.

I was fine with the old place tbh.

Honestly, and I might struggle a bit to explicate this, but I don't necessarily think that places like r/atheism are without value. I am an atheist, but I'm not "interested" in atheism -- one day in adulthood I realized I don't even think about religion at all anymore. Unless there's some zealot freak on the news, I forget religion or religious people exists day-to-day, and my general course in life does not bring me into contact with religious people anymore. This is a luxury not shared by all, of course. I was an angry atheist who liked to use words like Christofascism and smirk about the sky daddy. Later in life I went to a Richard Dawkins rally to hear Tim Minchin play and it didn't have the same resonance for me because my lack of religion was a given.

But when I was in high school? When there was actual social pressure for religion coming down on me? The hostility I took from religious people was remarkable. It could have ruined me. I was angry, then, and at that time in my life I had to be rude and mean and hostile and throw back every insult and strawman I could get to get that freedom from religion. The smirking, fedora atheist with a bad attitude is annoying, and a community of them is not the type of place I want to spend time, but I think it's so important that they have that community to develop that anger and language when it's a weapon they need to fight.

cheese, for a start.

catheists are mostly lactose intolerant.

sorry, couldn't resist

I've never liked r/atheism because it just felt like it was mostly populated by teenaged edgelords that treated atheism like a subculture they were into at the moment. Pizza-cutter atheists, all edge and no point.
Everyone else was butthurt and chronically angry. I'd like to see more activism, more community building, more maturity. Less butthurt.

TBH, I actually unsubbed from r/atheism years ago, because I didn't like how overrun the sub became with anti-religiosity. Don't get me wrong, I personally identify as an antitheist, but for me that means being opposed to religion on an ideological level, not thinking all believers are idiots, willfully ignoring the good some aspects of religion have done in the world, etc. There should absolutely be a place in atheist communities to vent anger about the harm religion does to society, but it got totally out of control in r/atheism eventually, to the point where reasonable, nuanced discussions became impossible to have there.

I also noticed that the community and mod team seemed to conflate atheism with a liberal political alignment. I'm a liberal, so I wasn't affected that much, but I don't see how there was any space for a conservative atheist on that sub. That's not what a general atheist community should be about IMO.

I just subbed to this community, so I haven't had the chance to get a feel for things yet, but I like what I see in the sidebar. So long as this place doesn't get dominated by radical antitheist rage-a-holics, I think I'll like it.

Needs to get back to the glory days of non-professional quote makers IMHO

browsing r/atheism is like being run over by a truck full of middle schoolers who got lost on their way to bully kids at the park because they've never touched a boob. like bumping up against their teacher's armpit makes them better than everyone else. the fundamental core of the subreddit is rotten and needs to be scrapped entirely.

if you want this to be a good group, one that appeals to thoughtful, interesting, and cool people, instead of stuck-up, gatekeeping dorks who do nothing but shit on religion all day (we get it, we are all atheists, you're preaching to the choir), it's gotta be the opposite of r/atheism. that is, be a community that is home to atheists, one where any and all topics can be discussed, rather than a community about atheism, where atheism is the single focus. in the former, i can talk with members of my atheist community about a movie i enjoyed; in the latter, i can only talk about atheism. in the former, i can talk with my atheist online friends about this wonderful book i'm reading. in the latter, i can only talk about atheism. you get the point.

good luck, have fun

p.s. sorry to end this so abruptly. things need doing, and i think i made myself clear enough. <3