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Shower Sitters, Are You Out There? (lemmyunchained.net)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I’m curious, does anybody else sit down in the shower. (That’s right not a typo. Sitters, not shitters)

This started for me when I was younger, usually when I was nursing a gnarly hangover. The warm water beating down on me was a solace and sitting just made it feel all the more comforting. Though I’m sure it’s not the most hygienic.

Over the years, it's evolved into a ritual, now my preferred way to unwind and relax. So much so, I’m building a concrete bench seat in the shower, with a custom shower head above it, as part of our bathroom renovations. (Similar to the pic)

I'm curious if anyone else has a similar routine. Do you find it therapeutic too? Any particular reason why you started?

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I had a real nasty shower in the house I lived in as a kid. It changed the way I see showers. The thought of sitting down in one. Ehh, it sends shivers down my spine. But you do you. If you like it you like. Also, I first misread the title as shower shitters and, the first line of the description made me think you were going to talk about dropping a log down the drain pipe.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If I'm sitting in the shower I'm probably in a depression spiral

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Try it when your feeling good. ✌️💛

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Sure, best way to cry in the shower is in a heap in the tub.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I‘m too fat and clumsy to comfortably sit down now, but before life fucked me this hard I definitely used to do that as well. Just really comfy somehow. Like sitting out in the rain, which I enjoy as well.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

When I was growing up in Jakarta, the downstairs shower was partially open at the top, so when it would rain (often) you could just shower in the rain. It was absolutely lovely and the tile work was well done so sometimes I would just lay naked on the floor in the rain and bliss out. I still (when possible) will just lay down in the rain.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

In the rain? Seems cold haha

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I used to. More of a kneeling kind of position though. No idea why I did it... Just did it once, must have liked it, did it the next day, and repeat.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Kneeling hey? That sounds painful!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I couldn't think of the word I was looking for when I wrote this. More of a crouch. IDK why I said kneel.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

😅

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Only when I'm sick, really.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It seems like it would be calming. Though I feel the tub gets a bit gross for this.

Any chair recommendations for tubs? What about shower heads that work best to not drown you?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I bought a nice shower seat for my spouse several years back so she didn't have to balance awkwardly on one foot to wash the other. I've used it on occasion when I'm not feeling super great and oh damn does it make a the shower that much more relaxing, at least if I can get the showerhead aimed so I'm not being pelted in the face.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I’ve got the perfect aim so it runs down my back and body, keeps me warm. And my left arm is free to use my phone.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

AFAIK people in Japan shower sitting, maybe other nations as well

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

You can add Australia to that list 👍

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