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I think that my gender changes more on the function how I decide to dress/express it.

When I dress as usual (neutral/masculine), I could use any pronouns. Heck, even sometimes, I think sometimes of myself in neutral or feminine... or mixing all genders.

When I dress in a more feminine way, I feel better with feminine pronouns. Or think about myself in feminine.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

Yeah don't overthink it just be you.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

It is just a label. It doesn't matter, just live your life and enjoy.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I'm an old man, so these terms are very foreign to me. Although what you described sounds like it could be described as gender fluidity. So yeah, you have that. You do you.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

The other day I found two microlabels, under genderfluid spectrum, that looks that matches what I'm. Mutogender and presentian .

Mutogender is a form of genderfluid, its fluidity causes one's gender to change depending on the situation, for example, the location, people one interacts with, season, etc.

Presentisian is a gender identity and mutogender in which one's gender becomes their current gender presentation