Cozy Games

Not entirely sure! It was a point of discussion on this community once. I personally think it’s one of those vague terms where you know it when you see it, and everyone has a vague idea of what you mean, but when you try to hammer down the specifics of what makes a cozy game and what is not a cozy game there’s a lot of disagreement.

I did find an article that tries to define what makes a cozy game cozy and think it makes a lot of good points.

For me, cozy is a game that I can shut my brain off to or play while I listen to a book or something. Any kind of time gating automatically disqualifies a game as cozy for me because I hate to be rushed or feel like I'm missing something. I'll drop a game if I find out that there was some cool thing or story beat arbitrarily hidden or locked because I passed some kind of milestone in a quest.

I think the general accepted idea of cozy is games with little to no pressure or time gating and no combat or options to make combat easy. Farming sims do well in the cozy community because there's usually no rush and a lot of little low impact things to do to keep you comfortably busy without being overwhelming. Top it all off with a pastel color pallet, and you've got a lot of people's definition of cozy lol

I don't feel like I'm competing but boy do I go hard when someone's shop has something that I don't have yet. NO you can't disconnect the session yet. I'm still buying your pink elephant shovels and every pair of socks in your shop!!!

My island is a mess. I'm a collector not a designer ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I will say that for Stardew, I did a “no mines, no combat” run and the only thing needed for the Community Center that I missed out on was quartz. (I got the monster parts for the Adventurer’s Bundle via purchasing them from the Traveling Cart.) Even so, there’s a chance to get that from peoples’ trash cans, the RNG just never worked out for me. There were some items I missed out on but I still managed to get pretty far.

Also, I found mods: Harmless Monsters, Remove All Monsters, Optional Combat, and Pacifist Valley
although some are more up-to-date and likely to work with the current version of Stardew than others. I hope they help!

But of course, no pressure. Just posted these if you want to try it. If you’ve decided Stardew is not for you because of combat it’s fine to just not play it, no need to try the mods before your opinion is valid. (Saying this because I want to make sure I don’t come off as pushy or “you have to try it with the no combat mods before it’s valid to avoid the game because of its combat”)

Curious what you think about turn-based RPGs. With those you can walk away without pausing and come back 6 hours later.

I’m fine with combat in cozy games but I feel it would be pretty hard to make a game that focuses on combat that I would consider cozy.

I also don't think I can hammer down what cozy games are, I just know I like or am interested in a lot of the games that attract that label. I tend to not find time management stressful at all which is why I personally see Stardew Valley as cozy. Meanwhile, I haven't played anything in the Persona series but the aesthetics I get from the screenshots I have seen make me personally find Persona to not be cozy at all.

There was a thread awhile back attempting to start a discussion about what exactly a cozy game is that you might be interested in!