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[–] [email protected] 6 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Only 4 more days to go and then I'll be on leave for two weeks!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Oh niiiiice! Do you have any plans for it?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Yes! My partner lives further away, so I'll stay with them. We're both couch potatoes so it will be a relaxing vacation

[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Sounds good! Hope you have a good chillax

[–] [email protected] 2 points 13 hours ago

Thank you <3

[–] [email protected] 3 points 17 hours ago

Finally being able to do something with a friend, someone who I just met a couple weeks ago. It's incredibly hard to find anybody for anything where I live.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I'm just trying to find a way to get my hairdresser to cut my bangs 😅 I have a major surgery in two weeks and I want to look nice in the hospital 😭

[–] [email protected] 4 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Oh blimey what surgery it it?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

ah, it's "the surgery", a vaginoplasty 🙈 If all goes well, I'll be kept in the hospital for a week, then will have to stay in a hotel near the hospital for another week before I can recover at home. Recovery is about three months away from work, full recovery is like a year or so.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Fucking hell that's massive. It's been a long road getting to where you are but the next step is HUGE. How are you feeling?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

really nervous, I don't have as much hair removal as I would like so I don't feel prepared, but considering the political situation and how long it has taken to get here I don't feel comfortable delaying either ...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I agree, trans is the current scapegoat for everything and an easy target. Postponing is high risk and not worth it. At the same time you're not where you want to be with it. What can I do to support you?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

aw, thank you for being so supportive 🥰 I think it will be enough to just be understanding when your mod suddenly ghosts in a few weeks 🤣 Though, knowing me, I might end up spending all my time here - we'll see. 😅

[–] [email protected] 2 points 17 hours ago

You have it in spades! Just see how it goes, the distraction may help but it may be too much

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

I just started watching S2 House of Dragon! I've watched episode 1 and liked it.

I'm going to the cinema with my friend but we've not picked a film. If there's nothing good I might suggest lunch.