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[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

Love my therapist and love going to therapy. They continue to challenge me and force me to look at situations and relationships differently. They offer exercises and creative challenges so therapy continues to be an active process.

I’m a long way from being ‘cured’ but so far away from the terrible person I once was when I first started therapy.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 hours ago

To me quite a lot. I know of friends and acquaintances that did not find benefits, but I am very happy with my choice of therapist (and mind, I only did some hours of search through internet platforms that serve where I live), and with how better in general I feel.

I also have to acknowledge that it's a MUCH longer journey than expected, and that progress in the beginning felt very slow (or I felt that I was not progressing at all, sometimes it was friends that pointed out how they felt I was feeling better), but I'm very happy to have decided to do it and with how it's turning out.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I've been going to therapy on and off for ~5 years. I'd say it's changed my life. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy helped me significantly cut down on negative self talk, which has improved my mood in general. I'm also more in tune with my emotions and I am able to sort of stop myself and think about my reactions (sometimes, still trying to work on it).

I've also become more empathetic and gentle. I think I've probably become a better friend and person as well. I've learned to let go of old fears, understand some traumatic responses, and most importantly, care about my own happiness and future.

I know it's not a possibility for everyone, but therapy is so worthwhile, especially if you have a goal. There's never anything wrong with having more tools at your disposal.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 12 hours ago

Thank you for your comment!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 13 hours ago

That depends on how skilled the therapist is and how hard the client is willing to work for their own sanity.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 hours ago

I've never met a therapist that was helpful. They just throw stuff at the wall.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 13 hours ago

Got into that topic lately watching Shrinking (very good show by the way)