Melbourne

This wind is making me feel a bit crazy. So glad to be WFH tomorrow morning. Just want some peace and quiet.

So I got a lot of upvotes for my request for you all to help the many organisations ready willing and able to accept your support. But no comments. Someone has downvoted a lot of comments, like gone through my profile clicking. I mean it's very petty but this is the crap we endure and it's often after tv programs like the one which aired the other night. I won't reference it but my family members watched and it was a bit of a witch hunt. Now I have to waste time I should be chilling out in writing about it, challenging the garbage with family.

Racism gets squashed and called out for very good reason, but transphobes are allowed "an opinion" and people do not much to help. Getting my pronouns right will not help my friend obtain full time work. Being an "ally" means fighting alongside us in my opinion. The organisations will have much more measured dialogue, but I don't represent any of them. I volunteer with one of them, but I'm not allowed to speak on their behalf and am not bound by the same codes of ethics their paid staff are. I can't change this thing about myself any more than someone can change their heritage. Would you call someone out for saying disparaging things about a Yinnar man with very pale skin like one of my friends?

It's a serious issue world wide and people calling themselves "allies" just comes across as them feeling sorry for us a lot of the time. People still think we have a choice in the matter but the reality is you either allow yourself the incredible personal honesty required in the face of discrimination or you slowly die. 37% of young transgender people have attempted suicide, that's just the young ones who have been surveyed. but many many of us spend years thinking about it before diagnosis. Ask me how I know?

So, no one commented on my post about helping my community. I think I gave very clear options. Is everyone just going to sit on their hands? Plenty of upvotes but you see why I say people are all talk. I give people options to make a real difference and it's crickets.

I'm not angry or disappointed and this is not attacking anyone, we all have capacities and I don't expect people to drop everything to help. I wish I didn't need to have to explain all this stuff, but I feel obligated to. And just so you're aware, I was a volunteer being realising I was trans. I recognised something needed to be done and stepped up. I'm done, I have to go to work. Thx for reading... especially my downvoter, wasting your time is a privilege.

Stretching is boring and it sucks and I don’t want to do it

Have done a beach walk, picked up my antihistamines and done an Aldi run.
Now to peel myself off the couch and into the shower...

Off to Bali in just over a weeks time for a work conference, need some new clothes for my wardrobe. Anyone know anywhere I can get a couple of funky ties? Need a one gold and one flowery one.

Exercises completed. Load of washing hung out. Minipeelers prepped for excursion. I've got to hit the ground running in the morning or I feel behind all day. We're having one of our big clean-up days at work where we dismantle and move and clean large plant equipment so I'm ready💪

Come on Dees! I can't watch the full game so I would love to see a convincing lead before half time.

Edit for spelling.

I've just been going through my seed collection, and wow I have a lot of seeds. Just how many varieties of radish does one person really need? I thought the two new garden beds would give me the space I need to fit everything in, but it's still going to be a bit of a struggle! Maybe if I start parking on the street and build raised beds on the driveway...

Now I'm in trouble with Bill Cat because it's raining. He's so bossy.