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[–] [email protected] 83 points 5 days ago (2 children)

writes innovative new software

ahh, fuck

[–] [email protected] 17 points 5 days ago

I'm hoping the context implies that it only has to seem innovative to the kinds of people who can't tell the difference between software engineers and tech bros.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Well, think about it. If you are writing software that already exists, it's not innovative. But, think about how rare that is. Has anyone combined the business logic in your specific way before? Chances are no, because if they had, they already beat you to market or you can reuse yourself.

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[–] [email protected] 48 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (9 children)

The engineer here definitely has ASD or ADHD and I'm fucking down for it. Way better than narcissistic tech bro syndrome.

Edit for context: I'm teaching strengths based pedagogy regarding neurodiversity, it's on my mind lol

[–] [email protected] 21 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Lemmy is slowly shifting from "Communism, Linux, and Beans" into "ADHD, Linux, and Beans"

[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 days ago (1 children)

We should bring back some socialism into that list, bean-friend

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 days ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I lean anarcho-syndicalist but I'm down with the A-C too. Just need to keep each other from being murdered by authoritarians, should The Revolution come in our lifetimes.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago

✊ Fuck the fascists and fuck the tankies ✊

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

What about anarcho-autism?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago

AuADHD reporting in.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I have an adhd engineer coleague. We don't give him large or complex tasks, that doesn't work, but he gets all the little things and bugs done before anyone else thinks of picking them up 👌

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Shit! I love my job as a software developer and my employer is amazing, but I wish they would do this for me. Also ADHD and I have an existential crisis every time I’m on a larger task with little direction.

I love the small things or when things are spec’d out in to small parts. Currently have to extract this sick calendar my boss coded and repurpose it in an application I am creating for them and man it’s not as easy as it sounds when you get overwhelmed.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

My ADHD friend is a software engineer but he's lucky he gets hyperfocus when on new projects that he's interested in. Works an absolute fuckton on it and then the rest help finish off the job after he tires on it, with him giving them guidance in zoom (while playing steam deck on my couch lol)

It takes good leadership though. It's unfortunate managers don't get the same kind of lessons we teach teachers. There are so many ways to accommodate your work method.

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[–] [email protected] 48 points 5 days ago (3 children)

fuck, I remember now I unironically wrote code on my ti84 before I knew what coding was or how it worked at all

not that it's complicated in any way

IIRC you write in "TI Basic" which is very human readable

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago

I wrote a rudimentary roguelike on the TI Nspire

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Smart home stuff is unfairly maligned. You just need a few basic rules and some hobby time.

  • Don't buy wifi stuff.
  • If it needs its own dedicated app, don't buy it.
  • Don't buy smart appliances. If you want to smart up something expensive, get a cheap smart outlet or a cheap sensor that does the job.
  • Use an open source platform like Home Assistant, not Google or Alexa or whatever.
  • When you find something it can't do that you want it to do, write some Python code and make it open source. You'll get so much love from the community for the simplest things. Also the occasional person that angrily wants to know why your free thing doesn't support his hyper specific use case but you can safely ignore that.
[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Can you recommend brands that sell smart devices that fulfill those requirements? Home assistant sounds like a fun hobby to get into but I'm wary of spending 99% of the time in web searches for what to buy instead of hours in web searches for tinkering.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

It's easier to shop for protocols and standards instead of brands. If you get a Zigbee dongle from Sonoff or SMLight and set it up with Home Assistant, 99% of devices marketed as Zigbee will work and you'll know for a fact they don't have Internet access and can't really do anything that would be bad for your network security because that's just not how the Zigbee standard works. This is where I would recommend starting.

If you plan on getting a lot of things, or think you might eventually, I would recommend getting both Zigbee and Zwave. There's also Thread now but I don't have much experience there yet. These are the standards that smart devices can use, with low power, to communicate without needing direct wifi access or anything. Each has their drawbacks in terms of how many devices you can use and their range. Again, this recommendation is only if you plan on going big at some point, but if you get zwave devices where you can, and focus on Zigbee for things like lighting, you'll be able to blend the standards together and have less chance of running into interference or device limit problems. But here I'm talking about when you get over around 50 devices, if you don't plan on doing that then it's not really a concern.

When it comes to research, I would recommend reserving research time for the devices that have to be wifi. If you want cameras, for example, you'll want to make sure you pick good ones that can be blocked from external access and properly secured. If you want to control a garage door or an appliance or something big like that, there's much easier and cheaper ways than getting a smart appliance.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

This is super helpful, thanks!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Home assistant is the shit. I’ve got lighting automations based on time of day and via motion sensors within specific timeframes.

Many sensors. Motion, climate, humidity, you name it.

Home theater automations. If I want to watch something, I tell voice assistant (Siri in this case) “turn on home theater.” It turns on the TV, receiver, and Apple TV, and uses the receiver’s API to switch the input to the media input. When I hit play on a video it turns off the living room lights, and if I pause or stop the video it turns them back on.

It has monitoring for all my thermostat sensors, solar, batteries, keeps track of my fridge and freezer temperatures, list goes on.

It also fully supports zigbee antennas and Bluetooth devices over Wi-Fi with simple esp32 Bluetooth extender configs. HAOS is just an outstanding piece of software.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I got a motion sensor set up to blink inside lights instead of a door bell. I now know every time there's a cat or bird on the porch...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

There's so much you can do. If I wanted to I could even make it monitor my Steam Deck's battery.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Imagine not building your own router out of spare hardware.

WiFi? What’s that? I’ll just run some cat6 through my crawlspace

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 days ago

Cat6? You rich or something? We use cat5e around these parts.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago

I used to have an old beige box router with dual nics. It would hum me to sleep at night ... I still have a box of wrt routers, you know, just in case someone needs one.

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[–] [email protected] 31 points 5 days ago (8 children)

If you made a spreadsheet to compare cars and ended up with a Hyundai your spreadsheet had an error.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I dunno about that. Hyundais are cheap, and until recently they were pretty reliable cars. I drove an '07 accent for 14 years with zero issues and minimal maintenance. I only replaced it in late 2020 because I was having a house built and moving to a rural area, and needed something that could handle country roads and at least light off-roading.

I compared a bunch of CUVs (compact SUVs) checked out all of them, and finally got it down to the Honda CRV, Toyota RAV4, some Hyundai (Tucson maybe?), and a Kia Sportage (I know, it's basically a Hyundai, and vice versa).

Every single one of them had some caveat. The Hyundai had a high dash and infotainment blocking part of the view, the CRV had a low front end that caused issues with low obstacles a CVT that struggles with uphill driving. The RAV4 was nice, but cost at least 30-50% more expensive than every other car with few discernable advantages. Plus, several other cars I looked at were CVT with dual clutch, which can burn up and overheat just going uphill.

In the end, it actually was down to the Hyundai and the Kia Sportage.

I bought the Sportage because it was all around balanced, still had an ICE engine, AWD, and Kia Finance had a good deal I qualified for. I got the previous year's model new from remaining stock with a zero interest rate. Sweet deal, total cost was like $24k. It's been a good car. Some minor issues and a bit of recall work with the dealerships, but I haven't had any major problems with it, and I barely have to do any sort of maintenance, just like the old Hyundai.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 days ago

Senior software engineers drive old, beat up Tacomas with no computers.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago

Did a huge spreadsheet comparing electric cars that can charge fast, tow a trailer and are as efficient as possible. Ended up with a Hyundai Ioniq 6. Great car IMHO.

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 5 days ago (2 children)

The router may also have a giant fan screwed onto the back too.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago

The wrt54g was a workhorse, but the cooling....

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago

Or just a huge box fan (as in, a fan used to cool rooms, not a computer fan) behind the thing, we used to do this back then

[–] [email protected] 14 points 5 days ago

Where can I get that open source pony-themed RPG dating sim?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago

pony themed rpg dating simulator 😭😭😭

[–] owsei 9 points 5 days ago

This hit too close to home. I've been eating at the same place for the past three years, I just say "hi" and go to my usual table now.

Also the spider anatomy. I've explained the origin of Hotwheels sisyphus at least ten times now

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 days ago

Inherits 'maintainer' status on an open-source pony-themed RPG dating simulator

For anyone in the industry out there, if someone has 'maintainer' status on an open source project, hire that mofo right away. That title sounds so casual but is the most hardcore

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago (4 children)

I feel weirdly caught, because I had a time during college when I could actually say "the usual please" in our local subway (the restaurant not the transportation vehicle).

Also I did program on the calculator in like 7th grade and studied mythological origins of witches and their bogs last month for a d&d round.

Not that big of an innovator, though.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

If I had not moved several kilometers away from my favourite bar, I swear some of the baristas would be communicating with me in grunts by now.

There was a period where me stepping in was followed by "The usual?" and a couple of times when they saw me out smoking just as the bar opened, so they just poured it without even asking me, as there was little point.

Life is too short to drive a Hyundai and eat the same meal every day though. Unless the Hyundai is one of their more performant EV models, in which case it can at least be fun.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago

I've worked as a software developer but it's not my strength. But the spreadsheet (and buying a Hyundai) rings so very true. My life is in spreadsheets, from my finances to my holiday plans to my meal planning...

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

If you have to make a spreadsheet, yeah. But since I've started working in a company, I have seen things, which will make me avoid making a spreadsheet, even if it's theoretically a good fit for the task at hand.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago

I am very confused, that this post was not by "FireflyWillNeverDieAndHeresWhy".

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