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[–] [email protected] 40 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

~~[email protected] seems pretty active to me.~~

Sorry, misread privacy for piracy. I'll show myself out.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If it makes you feel any better, I thought the same until I read your comment

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago
[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

This server is probably the best for privacy too FWIW

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

It says "nothing is here" when I click through. Do they block some third party apps like Voyager?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Lemmy.world blocks piracy servers and instances

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Yes, they gave a reason that they'll be responsible if those communities were left unblocked

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Privacy and social media don’t go together. Logs of your IP are the least of your worries.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago

Yeah, especially Lemmy.

Lemmy is apparently bad if you want privacy.

IMO IP logs aren't that big of a deal.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I would think the most privacy friendly would be to make a random user and not give out too much info. There isn’t anything else other than email. Hosting your own instance doesn’t equal privacy either as it’s super obvious since all content on that instance is from that user lol

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I'm not sure, but I've heard that some instances log IPs.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago

if theyre smart, they dump their logs regularly. i think my instance is 36 hours. that data is a liability.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I think they all do in the logs.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Does each comment store the user’s IP address as well? (Like it would on other forum software?)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

The Lemmy software seems to only store IPs for login tokens (i.e. on login).

It's likely many instances store IPs short term in access logs as well.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

hexbear probably
does not require an email for sign-up, does not store ip addresses, and (most of the time) you get posts removed or banned for giving particularly doxxable info
though if you aren't a communist you won't have a good time unless you have a humiliation kink

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

though if you aren't a communist you won't have a good time unless you have a humiliation kink

I don't want to make jokes but https://hexbear.net/post/4468531

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

For what it's worth, they have their domain back. It seems from a skim from the front page they're just deciding how to refederate (allow list or block list, basically they are trying to decide if they will automatically federate with new instances).

At the time of writing this comment the votes are close and allow list is winning (many commenters don't want to federate with new instances unless they are approved).

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Given that all Lemmy instances are run by private individuals you should probably think about using a vpn (or dns proxy at the very least) to obfuscate your true location and data. This applies to any mainstream or corporate social media platform, obv.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

Some instances block connections from VPN.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

lemme.ee doesn't

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

After proving that I wasn't a bot via Matrix, sh.itjust.works activated my e-mail despite having an obviously bogus e-mail registered, so that's a plus.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

What are your goals?

I would say it's really a combination of the instances policies and their jurisdiction, and in terms of jurisdiction it also depends on where you live (e.g. you may have more protections under law if the instance is hosted in your country)

There's also nothing stopping you from using multiple instances β€” siloing your interaction in different types of communities in different accounts on different instances. This may be useful if part of your privacy concerns are having all of your post / comment data on one account on one instance.

Edit: You can also use an email aliasing service to avoid even giving your email out. There are aliasing services such as Addy.io, Simplelogin (subsidiary of Proton AG), Firefox Relay (Mozilla), as well as some email providers which provide (iCloud, Proton, Mailbox.org to name a few)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

your own self hosted one