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I thought either a wedding planner or marriage councellor, someone who's supposed to help you in your relationship. And obviously family members.

Feel free to mention personal experiences.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Your partner, disguised as another person.

You cheated, except you didn't even actually cheat.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Your parent(s)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Family member, or close friend is almost always the answer. Doubles the betrayal as it's now from two people.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Her family member or yours?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hopefully you didn't take my recommendation about personal experiences here.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Thankfully I did not

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Someone who's already cheating on a partner of their own. The relationship is likely to be a self fulfilling prophecy.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Her friend that's a bonafied sex addict - who she knows has several STDS at any given time. Who she specifically asked me when we first started hanging out (not even the dating part) to not fuck around with.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

My husband’s ex-wife cheated on him with his brother and best friend. It would be completely terrible to cheat with those people even without that history, but it makes it 10x worse.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

During the same time frame, but not simultaneously.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That is literally the most disgusting thing i've ever heard. Thanks

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Anything that brain of yours can think of can be found

[–] [email protected] -2 points 1 year ago

They'd have a hard time believing it if I cheated on them with my partner. It's so diabolical and unexpected that they'll never convince anybody I cheated on them with themself!

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