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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

…for now.

Once you get critical mass it’s a race to the dumbest post.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I am trying to get there, but so far I don't seem to be dumb enough. Please kick me when I make it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

this is why small instances ppl

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm sorry, I'll try to be more violent.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I beg to differ, but if you wish so I may try to throw you that chair, sir.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

This is the spirit!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Absolutely not. But I must say that I don't miss the toxicity at all. Being on the (liberal?) Fediverse has done wonders for my mental health. There's little tolerance for bullshittery and that helps foster a stronger sense of real community for a greater cause in my mind.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Also there is (as of now) still far less shitposts and low effort commentary. I definitely won't miss the endless circlejerking either.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I don't think it's even necessarily all the same political alignment, so much as it is that we're all united against Reddit and this corporate tomfoolery right now. It won't last forever, but in being united for a common cause, we've sort of achieved world peace lol. I'm a libertarian. I've seen us, republicans, democrats, liberals, conservatives, socialists, and everything in between uniting to discuss technology, bash Reddit, and work to build back our global communication forums. This is the progress in humanity that the internet's creators envisioned. This is unity and peace. It won't last forever, but if we can at least continue to respect each other (while holding different opinions), unite against those who show no respect or dignity, and continue to rebuild together, we have in my opinion bettered humanity for years, hopefully generations to come. Even expecting that this platform won't last forever - none ever will - we have learned through this to not take our open forum and free discussion for granted.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Yeah, for now...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Enjoy it while it lasts. It probably isn't gonna be like this when more refugees have arrived.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Reddit has excessive bureaucracy and modbots who shadowban you for reasons as stupid as posting in a certain sub once despite never participating in the sub you got banned from.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

we need to introduce lemmy to the power of extreme violence

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

As long as you don't go into any post regarding the Ukraine war...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

It's what happens with a small community. Interaction and discussion VS lowest common denominator humour for mass votes.

We all want Lemmy to succeed, but that only means that it'll turn back into reddit. It's the natural cycle of social media.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Possibly but at least Lemmy is federated.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Thanks for the gold kind stranger?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Come a day, we'll all end up back on Fark and the cycle will repeat itself.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I told my gf, who I met on Reddit, about migrating from Fark to Reddit, and I'm trying to get her to join us here... but now she went and is exploring Fark, which is somehow still around, and I'm like you're doing it wrong!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I was seriously considering going back to Slashdot.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

So far the people who were most likely to jump ship on reddit were those who were the most fed up with what reddit has become lately.
I just had my 10th cakeday on reddit about a month ago and I've seen a steep decline in quality for both posts and interactions for the last 4-5 years, with it accelerating in the last year or so. Those that never tried old reddit on desktop or a 3rd party app see no reason to jump ship for another platform, and a large portion of the rude commenters and trolls showed up after the new layout was default and reddit had their own official app in the app stores.
Reddit just filtered out most of the people that made the site what it was in the first place. If it was turning into a shithole before all the people that actually care about the site left, just imagine what it will be like in the coming weeks now that we're gone.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

it's going to rapidly become a poorly moderated dumpster and people will eventually stop visiting until it becomes a zombie forum

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

If it was turning into a shithole before all the people that actually care about the site left, just imagine what it will be like in the coming weeks now that we’re gone.

i don't know why this made me lol but it did

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Well, it's just feels like more close community, so it's just subconsciously feels better to be not too rough.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

heh that’s a good one

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

gonna be a while until the place starts arguing and fighting like reddit did. just need some differing opinions mixed in, then BAM! I doubt it will be as bad since people aren't chasing karma as much.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What's the deal with karma on lemmy, is there something that makes it much different from reddit?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

No global count afaik.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Give it time, we're all new to the party.

Once we're all comfortable we can argue like we used to.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You can't tell me what to do! I wanna argue now

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I'm ready lets do this thing.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Hey, fuck you!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Hey fuck you man! I'm comfortable!

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (3 children)

so far I've experienced a ton of whataboutism and really sus views/devils advocate type shit on here (lemme.ml) that makes me not want to browse. is there a better alternative that's not saying "why can't we all just have our own opinion ❤️🌈" on shit like genocide and anti LGBT culture

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

There are other lemmy instances which might work better for you than lemmy.ml in that case.

I believe the beehaw.org instance might fit that description, would recommend checking them out.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Beehaw has a strict no hate speech policy and the mods aren’t afraid to put their foot down when people are sort of toeing the line about being a terrible person. That’s my instance and I’m very proud of it and it’s mod team. Sounds like it would be a good fit for you, too. Also, even if you don’t get an account there, you may be happy hanging out on the communities they host. Here’s a link to the mods describing their philosophy. https://beehaw.org/post/107014

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

you're the second person to recommend beehaw! I'll switch over !! thank you ☺️

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

so many more instances, back when these were ISPs people would change to save a dollar, now that its free social media people are trapped?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I'm not sure what you're saying here?