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I need to get this off my chest. School bus came early, and I was not there to get my child as the bus is usually late. There were vehicles which stopped for the bus, which waited for under 1 minute, then just passed the school bus all one after the other while bus was flashing and stop sign was out.

When I got my child, the bus driver was smiling and didn't say a thing about vehicles passing it. I'm sure they are used to it.

Nothing can be done. I'm just venting. I found out because a witness told me, so I checked the camera to see what happened.

So annoyed people are so impatient that they can't stop for a school bus beyond 10 seconds.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Report it using the non emergency number. They might post a cop out there or something. It's worth a shot at least

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

Thanks for the idea! I'll try this.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Report them, and keep the cameras rolling; you're going to see some comeuppance.

I have the opposite problem. There is a stop near me, on a 4-lane (plus center turn lane) road. Oncoming traffic is not supposed to stop, but always does.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

Interesting. In my territory's laws, you have to stop unless there is a dividing median. There's a road that has three lanes on each side plus a center turn lane, and all lanes therefore must stop.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

In some cities, the bus automatically takes photos of cars that pass it while the stop sign is engaged. Those drivers then get big tickets.

https://www.austinisd.org/transportation/faqs

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

I hope we have this. I'm in Canada and I really doubt it. But that is a great idea!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

What was the exact situation? In Florida you do not have to stop, if you are traveling in the opposite direction and there is a median wider than 5 feet. Were these cars directly behind the bus and then went around it? If you are supposed to stop for the school bus and don't that's both unlawful and karmically uncool.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Canada, and they have to stop. It's a residential area.

These cars were directly behind it and went around.

I've always heard people don't stop for school busses but thought it was rare.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

I have to say, I've never seen it personally. I've seen people push the boundaries but not blatantly pass like that.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

People become monsters under the veil of anonymity. Whether it's in your car, or behind a username.

[–] [email protected] -5 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

How do you know it was under one minute if you weren't there? I can't help but think you feel guilty about being late and are externalizing that by trying to point out things other people did wrong. If I'm sitting behind a stopped bus for over a minute with no activity on or off, you can guarantee I will carefully proceed at some point soon.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Then you would be commiting a misdemeanor crime because you couldn't wait 2 minutes. If you then hit someone it becomes a felony! I'm sure they'll understand that those 2 minutes were very important to you though

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

Only it you are in some countries. A bus can be passed when she is not moving. Outside centre zones a normal bus has to flash lighs and start moving to have the right. You must stop when the 2 are shown. Only 1 no problem drive on. A schoolbus is the same and for the children. The helper on the bus needs to get out to help the ones who need to cross the streets safely.