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I'm assuming money is not an option?
Learn shit. Painting class, cooking class, poetry, random community college shit. Hire a language tutor if I could. And I'd hire a personal trainer and chef, since I'd have time to try and work on myself. Maybe a coding boot camp if I can keep up, so I can come back with a whole new career. I think I'd make that my goal. Dabble in as many things as I can to see what I like. And I also just like learning random shit.
When I have three months left, I'll take a trip to visit all the places I've been interested in moving to. I'd hope to come back healthier and smarter, in some way.
I would also leave myself two weeks to just be before I had to go back to real life.
Book a private jet to go to California with my family. I've always really liked the idea of California and I also have a really good friend that lives there! ๐
I would absolutely have a blast being a full time stay-at-home Dad. We would hit every Park, library, zoo, and aquarium within a days drive.
Then during the summer, I'd pass their kids to their grandparents house so my wife and I could find a place to SCUBA for 2 weeks straight.
Two chicks at the same time, man...
Prioritize exercise. Try to gear towards being able to run a marathon and doing some strength training and yoga.
Cook more for myself. I don't think I'd go full vegetarian, but I'd probably have less meat dishes overall.
Try to learn Spanish or Portuguese using one of those quick learning methods.
Take at least two cross continent trips. One would be between the two inhabited North American coasts. The second would either be Europe from Portugal to Finland, Australia, or the Americas from North to South.
Maybe live in a low cost Spanish or Portuguese speaking city for a month.
I kind of did this once! Essentially I got laid of from a job but happened to have a good money buffer and life was quite inexpensive at the time, so I just thought "fuck it" and went as long as I could without working, I made it about a year.
It was awesome! My mental health has never been better, I wrote most of a book, got pretty decent at Blender, started working on learning to make games... and then I had to go back to work and it all went to shit lol, that was several years ago and I haven't touched any of it since.