How do you ensure the hospital doesn't perform normalization surgery?
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I have not been in this position myself (though I have unfortunately delt with doctors who don't see the patient as anyone worth listening to) so this is just my personal inexperienced opinion - do your best to make it as clear as possible from the get go (and put in writing in your file) that you do not consent to such procedures, ask your doctor if it's something they would do and leave them if they say yes. While in hospital after the birth make sure one of the parents (or guardians, or another trusted relative or friend) is always with the baby, so they can't be taken away and operated on. If possible and you feel an imminent threat - leave the hospital early (with the baby, of course!).
This isn't to say that the people who did have their children operated on without consent didn't do that, or did something wrong, or that doing these things would guarantee your baby's safety, but there's only so much you can do when faced with a medical team that doesn't care about patient wishes or consent.
What is wrong with the term 'hermaphrodite'?
Probably has the same origin as βshemaleβ?
Idk about 'shemale', but as far as I was aware hermaphrodite was just the scientific term for an animal with both male and female traits
I would guess then (entirely uninformed) that it's similar to the reasoning for not calling women "females"
Well, women are adult females. Calling women females would be inaccurate as it could also refer to girls - and the same for males, men, and boys
That's not inaccurate, just nonspecific. You could call women adults without the same offense of calling them females. Female is used as an adjective most of the time. The noun form is most often used in scientific/clinical situations or when talking about animals. This means it carries a dehumanizing connotation to it.
I'm sorry I have to alert you of this, but humans are animals. /jk, I get your point
An issue too many people turn a blind eye to. Thanks for sharing this.
<3 to our Intersex community
Thanks for posting!
Thanks for providing a space to post :)
I was actually looking for something in my download folder the other day and this came up, and when I noticed the date was coming up, this community came to mind, so I set it aside. Can't believe I actually remembered to post it lol