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so what's your threshold for calling police on random situations in your area that appear strange and potentially violent? (sopuli.xyz)

submitted 3 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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background: staying in a roadside motel in the US. Man and Woman in the next room are screaming at each other. 1:30 in the morning. Not my problem.

But I did get voyeuristic and plant my ear on the wall. Most I could comprehend was "your daughter, but what about MY daughter?" from the woman. That's what I thought I heard.

I was like, if I am certain I can tell that someone is beating on someone, and trying to kill them, or you know just violence is happening, then I'll call 911. but I was far from certain. all i could discern was crying and screaming.

Hour later, someone is pounding on my door. is it someone in distress? I am in the least accessible and least desirable room in the place. It's probably one of those two neighbors, but which one?

Anyways, I'm in the US, so I have one or more guns, but I don't keep them loaded or accessible. by the time I had something ready, I think the neighbors were about to pass out. they currently are quiet after hours of screaming.

So I'm not a fan of cops, but not entirely against them. Situations in which I did call the cops:

-Neighbors were screaming at each other, 3 a.m.; their 6-year-old girl was out in the street crying.

-I heard broken glass and looked out the window, and saw a pair of big man's boots going into what I thought was a single woman's apartment.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 months ago

Imminent danger. Call the cops.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (5 children)

If you see something, say something. I've called for lots of things - old man barely walking down the street when it's >100F outside, guy in a bullet proof vest and a hoodie when it was super hot out, couple screaming horrible violent things at each other, ... Basically any time i think, "huh, someone more qualified should check on that."

ETA- in that case i would have called the front desk.

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[–] [email protected] -2 points 3 months ago

Yikes. I'd have called the cops in your situation, if for no other reason than the potential of shouting to turn into something worse as tempers escalate.

I don't have an ironclad rule when it comes to cops, but in general, I avoid interacting with them in any way unless there's violence afoot. I carry a non-lethal weapon so I have a means of defense if something happens to me, but I don't trust American cops not to shoot people, so it has to be an explosive situation before I'll engage with them.

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