Keep in mind that every person on this planet will experience every symptom of ADHD at some point. That's why it's so relatable.
It becomes a disorder when it significantly negatively impacts your life and ability to function as a human.
Like, the only reason I'm still employed is because my company is staffed by people who understand the limitations of adhd. If not for them I'd be homeless.
My house is still in a constant state of chaos, and that won't change until I can pay a normal person to help me.