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I'm not from your instance, so take my opinion with a grain of salt, but I specifically looked for an instance that could access all the communities I want to take part in. You probably have users like that on your instance too, who would be sad or would even move to another instance if this were done after they joined.

In your settings, you can choose not to see any NSFW content. Similarly, when you're not logged in on an instance, any NSFW content is hidden by default. While registering, it asks whether you want to see that, so I think you must've picked yes.

The main reason to defederate from instances with NSFW communities, as far as I'm aware, is that your instance will cache anything one of its users views from another instance. If that thing includes stuff that's illegal in the instance's jurisdiction, that's a problem... Lemmy doesn't even cache images, just the text, but that would contain a link to whatever content's in the original post.

I have a question about the potential legal problems. If I host my own instance and federate with a server that (like lemmynsfw.com for the sake of argument) allows NSFW content of drawn minors (or apparent minors, whatever, the details don't matter), their content is copied onto my instance and I'm not hosting that content, right? So if that content is illegal in my home country, am I now hosting illegal content?

I'm here to replace reddit, so yeah I think I personally would like the option, even though I don't usually look at NSFW.

in Bob Belcher voice "its the principle of it!"

Not gonna lie, off topic but this post is a great highlight of my biggest annoyance of this federation stuff.

You say "we" and "you all" in your post but I'm browsing from kbin and had to bother checking wtf "we" meant to see if it even affected me at all. So while I'm not part of the "you all" you address in your post, I'm here.

I just thing that people need to be way more mindful of their language to avoid confusion with all the federation stuff.

I agree with most of the sentiment in these comments. Allow users to adjust filters & setting individually. Block individual users if they’re reported. Save defederating for hate speech, brigading, trolling, etc.

You can filter out NSFW content in your own account settings, so I see no reason to defederate from them.