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[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago (6 children)

i don't entirely mind doing the dishes, cleaning is relaxing to some degree. but emptying the dishwasher drives me fucking nuts, puttering around the kitchen opening all the drawers knowing it'll get dirty again within the day

[–] [email protected] 11 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I'm the opposite, though I remember quite vividly flipping out as a young teenager because I hated being assigned the dishwasher daily. I definitely still hate the chaos of it, but having wet/soapy/rashy hands and a sore lower back come with washing dishes and I don't care for that either.

The biggest issue in my household is that I clean the house daily, cook 6 out of 7 days per week, and I load/unload the dishwasher once or twice each day. Yet the following day comes along I almost always find myself hand-washing the damn pots anyway because my wife couldn't set aside ten minutes of her previous day to clean them. It's as though she has a cleaning disability. I still love her, though, and she's a great mom.

[–] sukhmel 8 points 8 months ago

A lot of us are dish challenged 🥲

It's good that this doesn't create a discord in your love

[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago

I don't mind cleaning freshly dirtied dishes, but dishes that others have let dry in over the past hour? Yeah, that's your problem.

Always leave the workstation in the same state or cleaner than how you found it, and if I have to clean up or fetch dirty tools from the dishwasher then there'll be no cake for you! >:(

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

That's kinda funny. I'm the opposite. I kinda like putting the dishes away. Everything goes from a state of disarray to nice and orderly. Doing the dishes I have to get my hands wet and potentially touch other people's uneaten food. I'd rather not.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago

I work 12 hour shifts so my sink becomes an abomination the days i work. But get me stoned and I'll have everything in the drying rack put away and everything in the sink cleaned.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

I find washing the dishes far more sisyphean than emptying the dishwasher. I feel like I've gotten out ahead since the dishwasher did the vast majority of the work for me.

Neither of the tasks bother me that much these days though, by the power of podcasts I can accomplish any mundane task.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 8 months ago

There's the two dishwasher solution: Have two of them side by side, use up the clean stuff from one and load dirty stuff into the other and vice versa - when the dirty one is full let it run, and after that this is the clean one.

Works like charm and saves a lot of space in the kitchen, no cupboards required.