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What are some of the non-sexual pleasures men enjoy? For example, I like saunas and soaking baths with salts and scented candles.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Sauna, yup. Love to go to the aquatic centre for a workout and a session in the sauna. A good shower is nice, more than a bath. If I can convince someone I have lice, I love having someone go through my hair. A top notch cappuccino or well brewed tea will take me there.

Hmm ... short list. I need to think about self care.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Buddy, just get a scalp massage...or ask somebody instead of tricking them??? Odds are that if they're comfortable enough with you to check your hair for lice, they'll just play with your hair a little. How is that your go-to?!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

I'm joking. I like having my hair played with. I don't have trouble asking someone to do that for me. I just got exposed to children with lice recently and had a friend check me. She knows I love it. It was so nice I jokingly told her a few days later that I was pretty sure I felt a louse and needed her to check again.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

All good stuff