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Men who have been married for many years, what do you think are the biggest mistakes men make in relationships that should be avoided? (lemmy.today)

submitted 7 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

Sorry, that's just bullshit. I have been married for many years and am on friendly terms with 90% of my ex girlfriends. My wife was sceptical at first (which I get), but now she is friends with several of my ex girlfriends. Others, not so much, but not because they are my exes, but simply because they're not compatible.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Are you friends with her ex-boyfriends?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

Never met any, we're in a different country now. It did happen in previous relationships with my other partners though, yes.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 7 months ago

"My wife was skeptical at first" hence, awkward for everyone. Most relationships end because one side ended it, which creates asymmetric feelings. Are there exceptions? Sure.