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Hey friends ❤️

Bit of an off topic question, but could use some help from my sisters.

Coming up is the first Valentine's day that my wife and I have decided to celebrate. It's also the first one since I cracked my egg.

I'm weirdly at a loss for how to celebrate and what gifts to get my wife. Specifically, I would love to find a gift or make a meaningful memory for her as a thank you for her devotion and love for me. Especially after coming out and being my authentic self.

Does anyone have any ideas? Best I have thought of is a set of matching jewelry or maybe little love notes hidden around the house about why I love her.

Not really sure

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Depends a lot on the person. I'm all about jewelry, flowers, and being taken out for dinner. But something thoughtful like the love notes is incredibly sweet and would totally melt my heart. I've also always thought getting some nice pictures taken of the 2 of you is a nice commemoration of your relationship. But that's not necessarily a valentines day thing and may be pretty specific to me lol.

Make the day special for her and for yourself in whatever way feels right :)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

Thank you for the suggestions! Pictures sound like a great idea because we don't have many since I came out yet. They've been a bit of a sore subject because all pictures pre-egg crack are me with a beard and you can really see the sadness behind my eyes. Some photos afterwards would be a great gift ❤️