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after questioning for the first time, did you ever question your sexuality again? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I'm pretty sure im bi and have identified as bi but am starting to question if im actually bi. Not really sure how I can prove that I'm actually bi to myself

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

It’s not as binary like a light switch, this or that, A or B. It’s all fluid. For example, I thought I was gay at first, for some years, but didn’t dare to act or think more in that direction. Then I started to come out to myself, explore a bit and realized I might be bi. I munched on that thought and feelings a bit and later found out that I was gay. More or less, at least.

EDIT: Omg sorry for posting 3 times the same comment, my app crashed.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

more or less, at least.

I think this is the crux of it for a lot of folks. We pick the labels that feel closest most if the time. Just don't let your labels define you.