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Wowww. That's a long hard road. I'm happy your neighbors let slip out and that you took as valuable information to make sense of your difficulties. Did you end up engaging in mental health services after the diagnosis?
Had my first therapy session last week. We both still have to decide if we are a good fit, but it's looking good. It was already a big help for me knowing that I'm not just lazy and wasting my talent but doing my best in a bad situation and that no amount of willpower would have gotten me over this.
I can now have much more compassion with myself. Life is still hard but I'm taking steps to make it better and I'm not alone. My wife supports me as much as she can.
I'm so happy for you! I hope it works out with this therapist. If it doesn't, there are a bunch more therapists you can engage with. Some of the most helpful advice I got when I first found out about being autistic was to "listen to your gut". If something doesn't feel right, then you don't need to endure it. You're paying for it, so it should be a safe and helpful experience.
I'm not very good at identifying feelings that are not extreme. So that is sadly not very much use to me.
Same. I even have trouble telling when I'm hungry. I usually can only tell when I'm either irritable or weak and notice that I haven't eaten in a long time.