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Difficulty feeling attracted to "real" people (rblind.com)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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As a blind man, I know I am usually attracted to the sound of a woman's voice. It's usually just the way they say a specific word or syllable, like "uh huh". However I find this almost never happens with people in the "real world". It only happens with voice actors, other performers, and people who are completely unavailable. I know that sighted people are usually attracted to one another by a person's physical appearance, at least initially. For blind people, attraction is based on voice or touch, and touch is a big no-no most of the time. The one time I dated a woman who was blind, we were touching each other toward the end of our first date, which was quite an eye-opener, figuratively speaking. Online dating has become so visual that I've all but abandoned it. I have felt starved for arousal as someone who lives on my own because of this. Have any other blind people found they rarely feel attraction in the real world?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

My original post contains a link. However, you're posting from Mastodon instead of getting a Lemmy account, so you can't see it. Nothing I can do about that; sorry. Consider joining Lemmy so you can actually access all the features of the platform.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

@fastfinge So, I do have an account on that platform but because there's no client that'll make it easier for me to use, that creates problems for me.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

The desktop website works fine, though.