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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

@Wanderer @Rodeo

"Day to day shit is your own problem"

Yeah I find your attitude toxic.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Then we'll all be happier if you dump your emotions on someone else.

I find complaining to be toxic. Which is why this thread sucks so much. We're all just whining about each other.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

@Rodeo interestingly, I'm learning a lot from this interaction. Like about how men normalize day to day misery and disconnection. So I'm very glad that this thread exists; thank you for being honest.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Hey at least you didn't try to call me broken.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I find it toxic when people go on and on about minor problems that are in no way relevant to the people in the conversation and there is no way they can help.

All it is doing is bringing unneeded negativity into an environment. That's toxic.

You want help? Yine I can help how? You want to ruin my free time when I'm trying to de-stress by going on about people and things that have nothing to do with me and I can't help? Go away.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

@Wanderer thanks for sharing your thoughts.