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Was just casually checking out some videos from this voice coach lady... when suddenly I find out she's trans too! Kinda makes me feel inspired, with progress like that.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

That’s a very different statement from ‘they are genetically this gender/sex’.

You're right, and it wasn't what I intended even though that's how it came across as. And you're right that I am assuming things about their life, but given the information I or the rest of us have that's kind of the only option available to a degree, and then learn from people commenting in reply to me when I attempt to start a discussion. Are assumptions not allowed at all here? If so that should be outlined in the rules clearer. And thank you for the thorough explanation,

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

It's not explicitly not allowed but you'll find it's a lot easier to come off as nice if you don't assume things.