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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Weird. Imo everyone should yield - that way both parties only have to do a little sidestep and they both feel seen. But I guess caring about others seems to be a dying thing anyways...

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

it is very weird, is this american thing?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Possibly, but could also just be a regional/being an ass thing.

I'm in the Southern US and if you don't sidestep or flat out get out of the way of someone (not just a woman) with a "pardon me" you're seen as a jackass.

However, I've traveled the world and as a 6 foot tall, 200lb man I got a wide berth when walking down the sidewalks in a lot of countries, have to get out of the way in others, seen people cross the street when they saw me, but then have some 5' nothing dude with a chip on his shoulder try to start a fight with me for existing in Boston (note this is just a very Boston thing)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I’m in the Southern US and if you don’t sidestep or flat out get out of the way of someone (not just a woman) with a “pardon me” you’re seen as a jackass.

Definitely regional.

We say "scuse me" here.