this post was submitted on 14 May 2025
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[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Hmm yes, that’s definitely a women only problem that doesn’t also affect me because I’m a man.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

"This is a problem some women have."

"BUT WHAT ABOUT MEN?!?!?"

Yes, by not explicitly stating that some men also have this problem, I implicitly meant that this was a women-only issue. You're one of the few who managed to see through my subtle deception, bravo.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Yeah no worries, I was just being silly by intentionally reading your comment in an overly literal way. I don’t think anyone actually believed you were implying it was a women-only issue.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

This is the internet, someone absolutely would do exactly that.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

I actually took the bait lol, all good.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

It kinda is. Obviously it doesn't start that way, rejection is naturally unpleasant for everyone, but culturally, men are expected to initiate courtship. Unless you're an absolutely gorgeous man, your romantic experience will almost certainly involve at least a few rejections.

The average adult man generally has enough experience with rejection to be somewhat desensitized, while the average adult woman has quite possibly never actually asked anyone out, much less been rejected.