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Being a cuckold is fun and doesn't deserve any hate (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I like being a cuckold and I don't understand the hate it gets.

It gets me off.
It gets my girlfriend off.
It makes it easier for other guys to get laid.
My girlfriend and I have more sex before and after a meetup because we're both into it.
It doesn't do anything detrimental to my self-esteem because I understand my self-worth isn't tied to monogamous sex - plus if it did, my girlfriend and I could stop any time.

Everyone should be able to do what they want to do so long as they follow the basic concepts of enthusiastic consent. And when people follow that, I don't understand the hate

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

I found it interesting that Trump's 2015 campaign and the use of the word "cuck" in a derogatory way seemed to happen in at the same time.

That being said, it sounds more like you're a stag than a cuckold. And yeah, kink shaming was never cool. Always seems like it's the people having less sex that kink shame idk.