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I sometimes think about how other people have less happy relationships than mine, and that makes me sad for them

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[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 4 hours ago

Same!

One of my fears dating was that id run out of social energy and she'd realize i was really boring. A few years in our relationship, I told her. And she said she thought SHE was boring me, because she never had anything to really say.

Now it's been more than a decade and there's no social battery being drained with her, and vice versa. We charge each other up!