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I sometimes think about how other people have less happy relationships than mine, and that makes me sad for them

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[โ€“] [email protected] 33 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The main problem is that making a happy marriage stay happy takes a lot of daily work. Thankfully my parents showed me how to do that, and more importantly my dad showed me how to make it fun.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 23 hours ago

A lot of couples stop dating after they get married, it seems they just want to go through a checklist

[โ€“] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago

Your dad sounds wise. Knowledge like that still isn't widespread, and back then even less so. There are no role models teaching/showing/demonstrating this in real life or in media that I have come across.