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[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 day ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (3 children)

These kinds of phrasings unhelpfully oversimplify real issues that some people struggle with.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don’t really think that’s the point. It suggests that a lot of trauma in someone's life can result in difficulty having normal relationships and interactions with people. That’s a perfectly valid position even if simply stated. There’s no need to enumerate the list of causes in casual conversation.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 9 hours ago

It also helps nothing to say a cliche phrasing that's been said for a heck of a long time. It's so simple and repetitious at this point that in a way it devalues the seriousness of the issue.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

There are certainly enough people who grew up with immense privilege who have no problem hurting other people. Are they traumatized? I mean, we can’t rule out the possibility.

On the other hand, have they been cushioned from the painful consequences their own actions have on others? Absolutely.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

I wonder if it is more used by people that don't want to accept suffering as a base for all humans cause the only people that repeat that phrase to me are ones that don't want to make allowances for hurt people to exist in their world.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Oh yeah they do. Have you heard:
Buffalo buffalo Buffalo buffalo buffalo buffalo Buffalo buffalo.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I have but I can never remember what the archaic meanings of half the buffaloes are. Also I thought one of the verb buffalo was supposed to be past tense.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

There is only 3 uses of the word there actually. The location, the animal, and the act of bullying or pushing others.

So it's locational buffalo are also bullying Buffalo buffaloes who happen to also bully Buffalo buffalo beneath them.