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I lost my dad this week and it's a complex grief (lemmy.ml)

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My dad was awesome. But he also wasn’t. It’s painful to hear words from coworkers who received things from him that he never gave me. But still, he gave me a lot. He wasn’t perfect. But neither am I. I mourn him leaving me so early. I mourn the things he never gave me and never would have given me. I needed to get this off my chest.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

i lost my dad a few years back. when growing up he wasnt always a good dad but we grew much closer when i was an adult. he was the best father he could be. he didnt really know how because of how he was raised. i do remember the good times and lessons he had taught me. sounds like your dad was awesome to more people than just you and thats pretty cool.