Wish I had a cat to talk to, but I can barely care for myself.
this post was submitted on 12 Oct 2024
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5 minutes is superhuman btw, I need a good half hour before anyone can expect anything remotely reasonable from me
You should ask for what you need. Even if people refuse, at least it’s an outright refusal which is more clear than not having asked.
It feels uncomfortable, but the payoff for this kind of boundary-drawing is enormous.
I'm a 10-15 guy myself