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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 month ago (8 children)

Big mood. Just had the third person tell me, "I'm just not feeling any romantic chemistry" in as many weeks.

Wondering if it's time to give up.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Have you heard of "sexy indifference"? A relative of mine mentioned it. It kind of makes sense. If you don't seem desperate or greedy for a relationship, you'll be more fun to be around and won't care as much either, because you have your own thing going on.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Most people just say don't look desperate.

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