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Online dating industry in crisis as shares fall and nearly half of all users report negative experiences on the apps

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[–] [email protected] 104 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

Get hardly anyone to notice me on okcupid, so I cancel my subscription, and within a day or two after it lapsed, I get 25 people interested in me, but I can't see their profile unless I pay, so I resubscribe only to see they're all in the Philippines and Africa. Then it's back to getting nothing. It seems to me that okcupid baited me into buying a subscription and I fell for it. The whole service is a scam.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Yeah, all of the Match.com owned services have done that for ages. Okcupid used to be truly a unique service, but it got transformed into another match.com zombie. Yay for late capitalism consolidation efficiency, or something...

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago

Had it happen to me too. They'll refund you for this. Just be polite when asking for it.

My review on the Play Store: “Premium is a scam. Hides likes which come from all over the world (clickfarms?) even though I set my radius to 5 km. But of course they only show you the fake likes (all of them) after one pays for premium.”

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Wtf was your radius set to???

[–] [email protected] 26 points 2 months ago

OkCupid only checks the swiper's radius, not the swipee's. So you can set your radius to 1 mile, but you're still going to get swiped on by the scam accounts in Singapore, and OkCupid will use that fact to lure you into buying a subscription.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

It's set at a 50 mile radius, I have no interest in dating people on the other side of the world, I'd prefer someone I can interact with in person without having to hop on an airplane.