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Looking for emotional support: I lost all my WhatsApp chats (self.datahoarder)

submitted 6 months ago by danhab99 to c/[email protected]

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I was so confident that WhatsApp was backing itself up to Google ever since I got my new pixel but I just wasn't. Then yesterday I factory reset my phone to fix something else and I lost it all. Years worth of chats from so many times in my past just aren't there, all my texts with my mom and my family, group chats with old friends... I can't even look at the app anymore, I'll never use Whatsapp as much as I used to. I just don't feel right with this change. There's no way to get those chats back and now it doesn't feel like there's any point backing up WhatsApp now! I really wanna cry like this is so unfair!! And all I had to do was check Whatsapp before I did a factory reset.. the TINIEST THING I could have done and prevented this and I didn't fucking do it!!!!!!!

How do I get past this?

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[–] danhab99 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Now consider that you remember it. You don't need to check, you remember the things that made that memory funny.

I'm only 25 and it feels like so many of the things I have are just memories. It feels like my life is slowly coming to a close and I don't know if the future is even there.

And you know what the worst part is? I don't really remember much anyways.

My 20 year old cat died and all I can do is remember him and look at pictures. I don't want to have to remember things just to keep them.. I'm just not reliable enough.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago

No idea if you'd enjoy it but I've been keeping a (digital) diary since 2018 (in a .txt file) and for me it's really fun either checking out what I did this day last year (two, three years ago) and also randomly reading around. It's a really nice addition to having photos (and my dreams would be to somehow combine the two, easily). So many things I'd never remember without this, like the one time the electricity went out for a afternoon in my town. I'm just writing a few sentences each morning of what I did (ate, worked, watched, felt, thought) yesterday each morning.