Romance For Men

Trying out the audiobook of this, narrated by Bordeaux Black.

Well…it’s started off like many Romances I’ve read. Partner caught cheating and a messy breakup with the book about the protagonist healing. Unlike most Romance though our protagonist has no support network. He just has crushing aloneness. Till he gets involved with the supernatural at least.

Listening to this audiobook. Excellently narrated by Amber Lee Connors and Kieran Flitton.

It’s about an arachnid beast-kin woman and a Vietnam vet freshly arrived from the war and suffering constant nightmares.

An interesting story so far.

Some folks in our discord started a buddy read of The King's Man by Elizabeth Kingston. A buddy read is just a bunch of people starting the same book at the same time. Everyone is welcome to join the buddy read and share the reading experience!

Ranulf Ombrier’s fame throughout 13th century England for his skill at swordplay is rivaled only by his notoriety as King Edward I’s favorite killer. Ranulf's actions have gained him lands, title, and a lasting reputation as a hired butcher. But after years of doing his king's bidding, he begins to fear for his mortal soul and follows his conscience away from Edward, all the way to the wilds of Wales. Gwenllian of Ruardean, Welsh daughter of a powerful Marcher lord, has every reason to leave Ranulf for dead when one of her men nearly kills him. As a girl she was married by proxy to a man Ranulf murdered, only to become a widow before she ever met her groom. In the years since, she has shunned the life of a lady, instead studying warfare and combat at her mother’s behest. But she has also studied healing and this, with her sense of duty to knightly virtues, leads her to tend to Ranulf’s wounds. Saving her enemy’s life comes with consequences, and Gwenllian and Ranulf are soon caught up in dangerous intrigue. Forced together by political machinations, they discover a kinship of spirit and a surprising, intense desire. But even hard-won love cannot thrive when loyalties are divided and the winds of rebellion sweep the land.

Started listening to the Audiobook.

Interesting to see a Australian protagonist, but man hearing a non Aussie narrator trying to do an Australian male accent is a bit painful to my ears.

Guess I need to finally start the series. I’ve read and really liked most of his other work. I think it being a military book put me off.

NemCraft on our Discord server is arranging a watch party for Skip and Loafer. It will play place tomorrow July 1st, 9 PM UTC. (You can check timezone here)

You can find the watch party event in our discord here

This country girl is ready for the big city! Well, at least she thought she was. Mitsumi’s dream is to attend a prestigious school and make the world a better place. But when she finally gets to Tokyo, it turns out she isn’t exactly prepared for city life. Luckily, she runs into Shima, a sweet and handsome classmate who becomes her first friend! Can she make it in Tokyo with Shima by her side?

EDIT: The watch party has been pushed back an hour.

This text is copied over from my original post on Reddit

When Hamon (aka Fluffy tail lover) dropped Catgirl in the Pantry: An anime-inspired reverse isekai adventure romance by Scott Sinclair in the #reccomendations channel of the Discord I was skeptical. The title gave me some doubts. While the title may evoke images of a smutty catgirl story, what we actually get is a loving deconstruction of the catgirl genre.

Catgirl in the Pantry is about Gavin, a highschool student, who suddenly finds that a catgirl has appeared in the pantry of his house. The catgirl introduces herself as Lilah, a Emisary of nature. An Emisary of Nature is a human who are inhabited by an animal spirit, changing their appearance and enhancing strength and stamina. Gavin convinces Lilah to hide out in his room while the both figure out what the hell is going on. This isn't always easy, as Lilah is energetic and inquisitive. She is used to roaming the wilds of her home world. While Lilah is hiding in Gavin's room, they develop a close friendship that Gavin starts to hope will develop into more. But Lilah doesn't seem to keen on a relationship after being dumped into a confusing new world.

Meanwhile, Gavin needs to maintain his normal life. That means he needs to go to school, spend time with his family, and oh yeah start dating Autumn, who he has had a crush on forever. Do you smell trouble? I do.

The story is slow burn, giving the friendship between Gavin and Lilah a lot of time to develop. Around the halfway mark things pick up, when a secret global organization dead set on eliminating "cryptos" (visitors from otherw worlds) sets their sights on Lilah. At this point external events in the story pick up and you see more action.

What I liked: I liked Gavin and Lilah. Gavin and Lilah are fleshed out characters, and there are interesting secondary characters, like Gavin's best friend Michael. I haven't (yet) read a lot of catgirl stuff, but I thought Scott's approach was thoughtful, if a bit on the nose at times. At first I was worried that the book would run into the issues mentioned in Born Sexy Yesterday, but Scott successfully navigates that hurdle.

What I didn't like: This book follows some traditional romance beats, where the relationship is completed in the final pages of the book, with a single prologue chapter time jumps forward explains how the relationships resolve. The denouement is far too short, the situation isn't given space to breath.

Overall I would recommend this book, and will keep an eye out for Scott's future stuff.

In light of recent policy changes over at Reddit, I’ve decided to create a new space for the RFM community here over at lemmy.world. To be clear, the original /r/Romance_for_men community on Reddit is not going anywhere, it will stay for those that want to use Reddit. I created this lemmy community because I want everyone to have access to RFM discussion.

During the API changes and ensuing protests Reddit CEO Steve Huffman made a number of controversial statements, but one in particular caught my attention: "We’ll continue to be profit-driven until profits arrive". Despite burning so much good will to enact the API changes, we know that 3rd party apps are used by a small fraction of Reddit's users. Charging these users high fees isn't going to be what swings Reddit into the black.

I believe the API is only the beginning, and in the future Reddit will employ more aggressive and user hostile monetization strategies. Lemmy can be a refuge as Reddit pushes its users away. My hope is that the early adopters that join me here can make the path easy for those who come later.

For those who are new here and have never heard of romance for men, and may be asking "what is this community"? Our community is a space to talk about romance media that men like to enjoy. Looking at our official book list will help you get a sense of what books we like to read. As always RFM is an inclusive space. We welcome everyone who interacts with kindness and civility.