If OP takes the Soulpill, I offer some tips:
- Don't despair if search results carry a [private] prefix. Some of these people just got frustrated once upon a time and decided to whitelist peers rather than blacklist. Often they just want a polite PM asking for access. It pays to be inquisitive, so check their User Info for information.
- Chat rooms don't need to be occupied to obtain or download search results. In fact it's usually better to ignore them.
- 99 per cent of users would rather you share 3 albums than 500 system files.