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Five years ago today my AFAB child went hard core in dressing as me for Halloween. This was their makeup test day. I was shocked when a few months later they came out to us. I am not a smart man.

But now when people find out I have three kids and ask their genders I get to say one of each and then delight in their facial expressions.

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[–] [email protected] 54 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You sound like a wonderful father!

[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The "I'm not a smart man" sent me 😂

I'm glad you are capable of recognizing it and changing!

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Initially it was a sharp learning curve and far more rewarding than it's been hard.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes, this is what makes you sound like a wonderful father. That you didn't see it as even optional. None of us are experts on things we haven't experienced before 😊

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But gosh sometimes I wish I was lol.

And to be fair the first night they asked to be called a new name I told my wife in bed no way in hell. The next morning I realized I was an idiot and told my wife we'll support our kid no matter what and I'll start using the name right away. So I did have my moment of not sure brightness.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You are clearly underestimating your smarts - too many people stick with their first reaction and don't reexamine their feelings and position on issues. Your family is lucky to have you.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

With the holidays coming up I'll be sure to remind them as they select my Christmas gifts 😂

And thank you!

[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I thought this was a after/before picture for a moment so fantastic work on that makeup.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes, that's it. I know how to shave 27 years of age with makeup. I was feeling cute, might delete later 🤣

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I know how to shave 27 years of age with makeup.

You're sitting on a gold mine!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

💸💸💸💸🤘

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Father of The Animaniacs over here.

edit: picture doesn't show up on original server and that is sad for y'all.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But now when people find out I have three kids and ask their genders I get to say one of each and then delight in their facial expressions.

The Daddest of Dads

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Lol! My favorite revelation was when I found out I was now invisible. My kids expression turned when I told them it's because I'm trans-parent!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

holy shit this guy is good

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This is so wholesome 😂 I'm happy for you and your family, OP.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Thank you! We are too.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago

(no, i am not their child)