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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The outlined issues don't seem to be lemmy exclusive, but then again, I've spent quite a short time here.

The toxicity is caused by the society, not by the platform. From my experience, one can always find a more toxic subreddit.

Reddit is just as much moderated by volunteers, that's the reason I started using reddit. Also, having corporate admins doesn't make the platform any more spam resistant.

If anything I would expect these problems to be more prevalent in smaller (lemmy) platforms and stabilize with growth to reddits level.

Now I'm not trying to defend lemmy, but being even more community driven I want it to succeed and become what reddit used to be.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (8 children)

I think that, perhaps, the user is trying to use Lemmy as Reddit, rather than using some of the fantastic quality of life improvements that evaporated with the API nonsense.

For example, blocking users and communities (and soon instances). Some users and communities, even if I enjoy them or the instances that they are on, sometimes are just too toxic for me. And that isn't to say that the comms and users necessarily are (sometimes they are) but, that sometimes engaging with some comms and users either causes undue stress or temptation to get involved in an Internet fight. That's not behavior that is good for us, even if it sometimes feels good in the moment.

I'm hoping (and have suggested) that a "timeout" feature gets added to allow one to readily self-regulate and disengage when they find that interactions are approaching the sorts that are algorithmically encouraged on commercial social media platforms. The outrage machine is just terrible and I've found myself much happier and in a better headspace since leaving such platforms. Added bonus is that transphobia actually gets taken seriously on most instances and, while it doesn't technically impact my as a cis guy, I'm much happier knowing that people are able to feel safer to be themselves (or come to terms with themselves).

As for the complaint about people being more likely pedantic or correct people on technical details, I love that - finding out that I'm wrong about something is fantastic because that means that I learned something. When there's topics, like tech, where there are often correct and incorrect answers and they change or get added to regularly, one really needs to leave the ego at the door. We're all humans (and bots and human facsimiles), which means we'll be wrong from time to time. It's a fact of life, effectively in environments where there are a lot of knowledge-workers and the medium of communication is directly related to the topics.

Personally, I'd like to see more comms regarding to digital circuit design and open-source silicon.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (4 children)

He is not wrong. I have had to block and get rid of other instances on Lemmy, because they are filled with toxic motherfuckers, and elitist Linux users

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Aren’t Redditors getting $ for content now?

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

Mf acts like CSAM and rampart porn spamming bots are not a thing on Reddit. That's some neat cherry picking right there. Here's the thing, at least rightwing nutcases are far less prevalent here due to defederations.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Literally my first interaction in reddit after I left 2 months ago was with a troll spamming emojis like he was so smarter than me that was laughable. No thanks sir.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

When I first started using Lemmy, most of the front page was hate content. Lately it seems like less than 10% though.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

It absolutely is an echo chamber, and it gets really toxic. This place is extremely xenophobic and it's very exhausting.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I definitely see a lot of toxic comments on here but I think that's mainly from reddit outcasts trying their hardest to be sassy. Sassy unhelpful comments on Reddit won the most karma so it can be helpful to remind them that that doesn't actually work here

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I actually don't experience these any of the issues. If you don't like tankie stuff then just block lemmygrad and hexbear.

Tbh, I'm very left so I like lemmygrad anti-capitalist anti-US memes.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

They're fine as long as you keep a safe distance, plus it's fun to watch them antagonize any nazis that show up.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

Lemmy.world is the problem

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Fuck it. I'll take my media raw. I'm not gonna block something just because it offends me and if shit posters start taking over the place well thats just society baby! I prefer it that way to giving some central entity the power to 'clean' up everything how they see fit. Not gonna lock myself into an echo chamber if I can help it.

To all the admins, thanks and take your time fixing things and if instances go offline for a while, thanks for giving me a social media break!

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A typical day on /r/redditalternatives

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago
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