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[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 minutes ago

I’m a boomer and I approve this.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I think the proliferation of videos as primary information sources is a huge part of how propaganda and disinformation became so effective and powerful. It's why we've done a collective nosedive into regressive politics and can no longer agree on the objective facts regarding.. well.. anything!

Information delivered by video tends to be trusted on the way it's delivered rather than the content itself. So we're thinking less critically about what we choose to believe.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

While I agree that the pivot to video was a massive turning point in the dumbing down of political discourse, I think it's more to do with the pace and passive nature of video/audio: the people are getting news and ideas at the cadence that the broadcaster deems appropriate instead of at the pace of the listener which would happen in reading or face to face transmission.

If something was missed entirely or misunderstood it is far more tedious to try and hunt down the segment that needs reiteration than it is to read it again (or ask for clarification). This means people that miss something will just try to pick up any context later in the broadcast and if the broadcaster doesn't deem it important or relevant (or maliciously omits it), the listener has no further interaction with the idea. And then the idea is lost beneath the rest of the news agglomeration.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

My favorite trend is where youtubers record a screenshare of a word document they have open on their computer that they proceed to read to me, slowly.

I’m especially delighted when the youtuber selects the text as they read it, as if to make sure I don’t get lost.

ETA: I’m just saying it’s a good thing we streamlined video platform monetization, so 1.6 million other viewers and I can not read that document together. I’m not sure what generation was responsible but, good for them.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago

I'm a Millennial. I'd rather burn a house than pick a video from a choice of (video, article).

[–] [email protected] 44 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I hate it when I'm looking for a single piece of information like how to change a specific setting in my device and there's no text available, just a highly rated video that goes like:

"Hey guys, it's your boy ManualExplainer here and welcome to another video. Be sure to like and subscribe to my channel. And remember to click on the little bell icon so you get notified whenever I put up a new video. All right, let's get to it. But first, a word from today's sponsor."

😡😡😡😡

[–] [email protected] 3 points 58 minutes ago

God bless the people that put the video highlight on Sponsorblock or write the solution in the comments.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I'm millennial and i hate those videos too

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 hours ago

Everyone that's functionally literate hates those videos

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 hours ago

Amen to that, brother.

I fear for the future, because this generation won't know something if it hasn't been tictokified or taught by an "AI".

[–] [email protected] 28 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (3 children)

I can send you the article, but you're going to get two "would you like to subscribe" popups and dozen more ads sprinkled between every third sentence.

Like, I get that the video shit is annoying. But it almost feels like a competition in print media to make it worse.

Case in point:

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 hours ago

I don't see the problem?

The article clearly demonstrates how the web became unreadable with a handy diagram...

/s

[–] [email protected] 15 points 12 hours ago

Firefox reader mode FTW.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Ublock origin is your best friend

[–] [email protected] 7 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (2 children)

(Press the image if compression quality really bad)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago

I usually block this popups too

[–] [email protected] 2 points 12 hours ago

Can try the anti-adblock-adblock list lol

[–] [email protected] 24 points 13 hours ago (5 children)

Millennial weebs read twice as fast as Gen x. Those fanmade anime subs can roll through quick.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 12 hours ago

Ikr, fuck ticktok i can SPEED through text!

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 14 hours ago (3 children)

Hi, millennial here. Do you know why some millennials and a large portion of gen z suck at reading? Because their boomer/gen x parents didn't read to them as a child.

I grew up on my grandmother's lap, with her actively making reading fun and encouraging me to read along - I was reading, and comprehending, YA novels by grade 2.

My little brother though, who did not have a parent/grandparent to teach them to love reading, can't read worth shit. He was well into highschool before he even attempted a book like animorphs, and still didn't really comprehend the plot any better than grade 2 me.

So no, this is not a generational/phones bad problem, it's just another example of how boomers and gen x let their children down when it came to raising them with life skills, and then making fun of them for it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 16 minutes ago

I'm also a millennial. I had a lot of classmates and friends whose boomer parents actively discouraged reading. I mean the whole stereotype of the weak nerd that just reads books and is being bullied for it is pretty old. A lot of my friends even back in elementary school had a TV in their bedroom the second cable/satellite TV became a thing here. I had classmates whose parents discouraged them from going to university or reading advanced books because that is for nerds and only working with your hands is real work. Matilda was written in 1988 and while the parents in that book were a caricature, I knew parents who'd scoff if their child read a book or dared talk about going to university.

The millennial children of these parents grew up to consume internet click bait and are now not teaching their kids to read books. The internet and smartphones definitely accelerated the problem, but it started much earlier.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Gen X. My parent and grand parents didn’t do shit. It’s not generational. They weren’t bad , just not great. That’s pretty universal.

They didn’t read to me, and I’m an avid reader.

I read to my kids, but they all lost interest in it pretty quickly. Only one of them does it as an adult.

It’s all situational my dude.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago

Same experience here as a GenXer - I don't recall my parents ever reading to me - they might have when I was really young, but they were also raising my brothers (6 and 7 years older than me), so I doubt they had much time.

I was the avid reader in the family. When I got married, I stopped reading as much, but I still do some reading when I find a book that interests me. I have three or four sitting on my desk at the moment that I haven't started.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 12 hours ago

Because their boomer/gen x parents didn’t read to them as a child.

As a gen-Xer, this hurt to read. If I knew my classmates were going to grow up to be such dipshit parents, I would have slapped some sense into them. I mean, a lot of them were already pretty awful as teenagers... but, that wasn't a phase? Man, I am sincerely, deeply sorry.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 15 hours ago

This is the type of boomer engagement bait you'd see on Facebook. It's basically "UpVoTe If YoU aRe GeNx!1!1". Sure, the discussion here is higher quality, but it still makes me cringe to see this kind of stuff being posted unironically on a site I use.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Lmao, "for the love of bananarama" "in Prince's funky name, amen." Who types that?

[–] [email protected] 17 points 13 hours ago

A millennial pretending to be gen X.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

Post a pithy hot-take in text? Nobody reads.
Post a screenshot of the same text from a social media site? That’s bussin!

[–] [email protected] 14 points 17 hours ago

If you see a millennial doing that then slap them and call them an embarrassment for me

[–] [email protected] 29 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

As a xennial with ADD, send me the short, I'll watch it, hunt down the article, read it, then spend 3h down a rabbit hole to understand the validity of the claims and the bias of the news outlet, then I'll get bored and stop typing in the mid

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 20 hours ago

hv;dw (hate videos; didn't watch)

[–] [email protected] 132 points 1 day ago (13 children)

I don’t like these generational generalizations.

Not an xer but I feel the same. I’d rather read twenty minutes than watch a 5 minute YouTube video.

[–] [email protected] 88 points 1 day ago (9 children)

“Elder millennial”/Oregon Trail generation here, and I’d generally rather read it, too. I’ve found it often only takes 5 minutes to read an article where the video would be 20 minutes. Sometimes a video works better for a how-to, but often an article will be a faster choice.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I do wonder how much of video's proliferation is because we (in the US at least) fucked up teaching a generation of kids how to read. I'm told one of the dominant strategies for teaching reading was just bad. Well meaning people went all in on it, and then kids just didn't learn to read well.

You can read about it here, or listen to it as a podcast https://features.apmreports.org/sold-a-story/

[–] [email protected] 6 points 12 hours ago

This is just appaling to read. No wonder the US education is so fucked.

Just to further push the point, it took me 40 minutes to read 3 transcripts. Each transcription is of a roughly hour long podcast episode. So 3 hours down to 40 minutes and English is my second language. It stresses me that people can't recognize that reading is the closest thing humans have to a superpower.

[–] [email protected] 44 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

Also, I want to see the video. Not the video with someone next to it making faces as they watch the video.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 19 hours ago

The only reaction video worth watching is someone from that profession reacting and giving additional context as to why it works or doesn't

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[–] [email protected] 92 points 1 day ago (4 children)

The worst is instructional manuals being replaced with videos.

Going back 10 seconds, 20 times, so that you can visually see how two pieces fit together is way more annoying than just looking at a visual diagram on a printed page. Especially when you've got both hands full with stuff.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 17 hours ago

I put something together I got at Walmart like 10 years ago and it came with print instructions that had links to .gif files that were short and looping showing each step clearly

I though "oh wow if some random Chinese product does this surely it'll spread" and now feel so dumb for having thought that

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 17 hours ago

I know plenty of people that "can read fast." Unfortunately, they don't comprehend anything they read until they slow the fuck down.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 15 hours ago

I wish to buy this person a beer. Also send me tech docs and not a YouTube tutorial where I have to jump ahead of all the bullshit while trying not to miss the useful details.

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