dude it's not a eulogy. how are people still bitching about smiley faces especially in conversations like this. fucking inhuman corporate robot piece of 💩
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I think the widespread use of chat clients and services like slack in large companies has changed this norm.
There was a time where it would be unprofessional, but now its a solution to the communication flaw inherent in written messages. Conveying emotion.
My spouse works fairly high up at one of the evil tech giants and their team was very excited to be working with some dude who had written a computer language (I don’t remember the details) and someone had written him this very professional document requesting he read it and assess it, his only response to this very carefully prepared document was a “👍🏻” and literally nothing else lol, everyone was low key offended but no one said anything to him because they all basically considered him a celebrity
I work for a MSP, and we have a chat for "account managers", a non technical position where they interact with the clients upper management, and tell them stuff we as techs shouldn't (hard no's, complaints, large project recommendations etc).
That chat is full of gifs, jokes, emoticons and some memes. I feel like the weird one not feeling comfortable doing that there. I do all that stuff too, but usually in smaller more private chats.
Very well said.
Gonna use this argument anytime a boomer breaths.
Ill message my boss and get a emoticon response sometimes, usually for simple yes or okay responses, and they'll send out meme for some regular announcements like timesheets or stuff
I use the facepalm one all the time at work.
"I've never been promoted for my professionalism, but I've been promoted countless times for my skill. If you'd rather lose out on the best employee you may ever have because of a smiley face, I'm not sure this environment would be a good fit for me anyway."
Am I the only one who sends GIFs in work chats?
I mean I won't send one to a VP but I can send them to peers, supervisors, managers, department heads. No issues.
Hell people throw down happy Monday memes around.
GIFs are just about the best thing about moving from Skype to Teams for work. I think if they took them from us there'd be an uproar tbh.
Microsoft bought giphy I think so they know what's up. That's why they got a GIF button now.
I can't find anywhere that says Microsoft has owned Giphy.
Meta bought giphy. I got it twisted
I worked at a mid sized company, we used slack and used gifs and memes and had thousands of custom emojis uploaded.
Got purchased by a mega Corp, now use Teams, we've been slowly corrupting them with smileys, memes, gifs, etc. It's been good.
Same thing happened to us but we've completed the corruption already.
Important meetings are meme/gif free but daily meetings and team chats are fully corrupted. It's more of a work culture thing. Less stuffy.
Yeah it's been a couple years now and it's clear we're won lol. Our last town hall had a game where you spam gifs in the chat :P would have been unthinkable a couple years ago. They literally had gifs turned off before we got there.
I'm afraid I'm about to go through this exact same thing. Company currently uses Slack, with hundreds of custom emojis and our own shitposting channel. We got bought out by a massive international conglomerate several months ago, and ultimately the plan is to move everything over to Microsoft, which is what they use throughout their organization.
You can add custom emojis in teams now 🙂
Teams has improved a lot in the past couple years since I was forced to move over, and Microsoft power automate is legitimately really powerful if you're interested in automation.
Good luck with the corporate culture though, it really sucks.
Amateurs, I share scat porn on slack.
I wish you were not gonna lie my coworkers are not my friends and I don't want to see their memes or other goofy business, I left a group message the other day because someone replied to something I said with a gif I find it rude in a professional setting.
Well, it's good that you left the group chat then. That's a win win. You don't have to see GIFs and they don't have to deal with a huge pessimist.
It's not pessimistic to not want to be involved with coworkers in an unprofessional manner, i said a form of communication was inappropriate for text messaging instead of an email because it was too long and some turd sends a GIF back of some guy going pshh flapping his hand off in my mind he's an unprofessional jackass.
if I'm working I'm not there to see your stupid bullshit I'm there to make money and go back to my own stupid bullshit.
Well done of us can have some fun while working.
I use memes when appropriate with the right people.
I helped out a peer and they thanked me. Thumbs up gif.
Someone closed out a tough ticket. Congrats gif.
I finished a tough ticket. Frodo its done in group chat.
Servers are down. No memes. How can I help.
Sadly some people don't have good social etiquette. But I use my memes and people like it.
They're friendlier, and even if you hate them, they make intent a lot clearer over text.
Being courteous and clear in your communications is professional. Being tacit and sententious is not.
sententious
sententious /sĕn-tĕn′shəs/ adjective
- Terse and energetic in expression; pithy.
- Full of or given to using aphorisms, especially in a pompously moralizing manner.
- Abounding with sentences, axioms, and maxims; full of meaning; terse and energetic in expression; pithy. "a sententious style or discourse; sententious truth"
Learned a new word, thanks!
Haha thanks for commenting with the definition. I considered doing that myself, since I too only just recently learned the word, but somehow it feels kind of condescending to do it myself.
lol yeah, would've been weird if you did it, and I wanted to save some folks the time. I wonder if it would still be condescending if you just linked a word to a page with its definition?
Emojis are fine, but I still prefer emoticons - I feel like they have more flair ^ _ ^
Depending on the venue, I end up viewing emotions as a passive indicator of "Internet tenure". O_o Conveys that someone has been on the Internet longer than 🤨 usage. (In some cases)
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All clear, management have gone on another away day!
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I agree, but there is just too many who are late t9 the oarty and just wouldn get it.
¯ _(ツ)_/¯
EDIT: I wonder why the backslash doesn't display
Because the backslash is an escape character:
¯\_(ツ)_/¯-> ¯_(ツ)_/¯¯\\_(ツ)_/¯-> ¯\(ツ)/¯¯\\\_(ツ)_/¯-> ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Explanation:
- the backslash is used to escape the underscore.
- the first backslash escapes the second backslash, so it's shown as a backslash. The pair of underscores is used to display the characters between in italics
- both the backslash and the first underscore are escaped, everything finally works
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we made smiley faces with keyboard characters in the before times. nobody cared. it was no big deal. wink smile frown w/e. emojis ruined it. Unprofessional like when graphic artist used 'love you like a sister' font on a college website. cartoons are not serious. business is serious business and takes itself seriously. any MBA would agree. does it increase growth or profit? lose it. graphic clowns stick to ads for the click-bait spam that somehow makes money. :-)
🖕 that guy and his supposed professionalism
I disabled to use of emojis when I set up our companies internal wiki for SOP thinking that wasn't appropriate for technical documentation, but my boss asked me to turn them back on because he wanted to use them. I begrudgingly obliged.
Turns out he didn't want to use smileies, just the icons for quickly identifying bullet points like ⛔‼️✅❕or even 🌐🖨️
A decade ago, I was annoyed by emojis. Hate that shit.
But then some PM decorated all the knowledge base page titles in our Confluence to have a icon in the front to visually group the goal.
And that's when I learned how valuable a good emoji can be.
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Weird … I was told the exact same thing by my boss.
So I stopped using emojis, and then she told me that my messages were “passive-aggressive” or “rude”
And I told her that’s why people use emojis, to add the nuance that is missing because we aren’t communicating face-to-face 🤷♀️
Emoji are fine, but I hate when people follow every other word with one. You know the type: every “I see” is followed by 👀, they can’t mention a house without 🏠, and God help you if they start talking about their pet, because there’s more pictures of animals, hearts, and stars than words.
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