My first character I tried to make, I was wandering around poking everything and getting into fights (and losing) while Shadowheart and the green woman who's name I can't remember how to spell follow me around being catty or outright hostile to each other.
The second character I started after I basically got stuck in a position where I couldn't advance, and every door our of the area I'm in was met with a "This is going to be bitterly hard for your sad weak little party" message on my first character. I spent some more time wandering around the crash site, which made me realize I needed to spend more time wandering around the crash site looking for people.